I'm 37. 22 yo wants to wing from other forum

[TurnOfClass]

As the title says. I'm 37 and a 22 yo from another community forum wants to be my wingman.

He's moving to a city very near me and he PM me to see if I we could be wings.

There's a huge age difference here, has anyone on here done such a thing with success.

Obviously I'm prepared to game chicks his age - no problem.

It would be interesting to get some points of view.

Peace bro

TurnOfClass

[LeatherJacket]

Can't hurt to try and see how it works. Go for it.

[Wolfbreath]

Well, to be honest man, age can either be detrimental or it can be very useful. I'm actually 22 also, and I've considered gaming with my 52 year old dad, as well as a 35-40 year old colleague.

It could be very successful depending on the venue and depending on how much you guys allow the age difference to show and hinder you. Or, it could be used in part with game. I mean, if you're "colleagues" or "associates" or "affiliates" it suddenly won't be some strange in a woman's point of view - I think?..

[Discovery]

It all depends on both parties.

I'm over 37 :-) (but look after myself, have a good idea on fashion that works for me shape and have had a lot of experience gaming and learning how to be more playful and care-free infield. So I feel comfortable going out with any age.

In fact one of my best wings - Colgate - is 21 and we are awesome infield and because we both have other cool things going on in our lives beyond pickup, together we really compliment each other with typical comments from women about us being really cool.

Indeed if we go out in a bigger entourage 21-40 age guys (ideally with women) and all guys have great life stories and are actually fun and sociable - we ALWAYS become the life and soul of the party.

Older cool Cats giving that added air of success to the younger cats and the younger guys giving reason for older dudes hanging out with some hot 24yr olds.

All in all it makes for a cool, interesting and high value group.

On the other hand, one of my buddies is 41, looks going on 50 and serious as hell. He came out with our group one night and a girl asked one of my personal training buddies (22) if the older guy was his Dad! He was not impressed and neither was my older friend!

Long and short of it is..... Are you Vibing well together - if you are you will look great together and get comments like - wow, how do you know each other! - again, a great opening for another solid DHV story or humor track of how you met - and or great AI (accomplishment intro) to your wing!

Hope that helps.

[Colgate]

I agree with Discovery completely. As long as both of you compliment each other and you have "a reason" to hang out, there is no problem. It can actually be very beneficial for the both of you.

Being the older of the two you may be able to offer life experience that has yet to be obtained by the 22 year old. On the other hand he can also offer you the insights as to how "the game" works nowadays. Both of you can grow and learn from each other.

I've known Discovery for years now and although the age gap, i look up to him like an older brother. We are involved in each others lives outside of pick up and 90% of our conversations aren't even pick up related. We have been all over the world and have met awesome people together.

We both compliment each other although our personalities are complete paradoxes to one another. Our natural vibing abilities comes from a genuine friendship we have cultivated throughout the years. I've learned a lot from him and just watching how he is when we go out, business side, fitness side etc and i like to think i have offered ideas that have assisted in his growth as well.

Point is, WE BOTH COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER. Age isn't a factor in developing friendships. Yes aligning with people of the same age may bring about more commonality, however aligning with some older/younger makes both of you understand each other's thought process.

Also, Wing-Mogging can be a useful trick to vibe better. If you havent read the article that Discovery and I wrote click below.

http://www.venusianarts.com/the-rebirth-of-amoging/



-Colgate