Picking up Girls You Already Know

[FadedVizion]

I want to know, is it possible to be able to pickup/seduce, basically get OUT of the friend zone with a girl you already know fairly well?

Im just curious since it seems alot of MM seems to be going after chicks you've never met before.

[doomstick]

ive done it before as an AFC once. i think now with what ive learned it might be easier im actually working on one now. ill reply as sson as i have a LR

[Eyez]

So am I.

If you're good enough,you can get out of the friend zone.

Sometimes it's even good to be in the friend zone and switch out,because you see a side of her,that regular guys don't. So you can decide if you really want her then. She could "look good on paper",till you see her talking shit on every guy she sleeps with.

But yes it's possible.

[Express2]

It is possible, but HARD, and you are more likely to ruin a friendship than start a relationship. The best thing to do is go away for a long time if possible, cutting off all contact, and then like 6 months later come back into her life like a new man and most importantly with a girl on your arm.

[FadedVizion]

I see. I consider myself a rAFC right now, but I am practicing MM. So far Im way less of an insecure geek than I was before. There was this one girl awhile ago, we had a thing going on, but she got away. And yes, I had a BAD case of oneitis for her. I just have that lingering feeling of "what could have been?" Hanging around. Oh well though, theres plenty others out there. Thanks!

[flip87]

Hmm, it's tough, but its possible...The problem is if you wait to long to signal that your interested it becomes a friendship...and it's harder to get out of the friendship then to enter it...

I had this problem, what I did is...

I started to ask her broad questions like...What do you think will ever happened if we dated?

and she was replied in awww...well your such a good friend this that, but your nice, I'd really have to consider it.

Then I just approached her by saying...a relationship is about trust and connection, but we already have that...and just feeding in lines...and it turned t o a intimate connection.

It's just difficult to send that signal, but you have to work easy and slow at it.

Don't just burst in saying "all this time I liked you"

[xenos]

I got out of a 2 year LJBF (although I was LJBFed cause I was in a serious relationship and 100% committed) but the timing had to be pretty good, and it took forever. Over a few weeks we hung out more and more. The hanging out turned into dates basically, and shortly after, shazam.
After coming to this community, I realize that she should have been a pivot, or just social proof by being my friend, and I hope to never submit to one-itis again.

[Cedar]

I want to know, is it possible to be able to pickup/seduce, basically get OUT of the friend zone with a girl you already know fairly well?

Im just curious since it seems alot of MM seems to be going after chicks you've never met before.


Yes. You go out and practice your skills. You break all contact. And you come back a changed man. Problem is... by building your skills you learn you have a choice with women. There is no scarcity.

And that one girl you set out to get... she's not that special anymore.

[Hawkeye]

I agree go away for while first, other wise she will you'll just ruin a friend ship, also yo could use her as a pivot and let her see you up pick up other girls, this will change the nice guy, cute, baby brother, image she probably has of you mind you if your game isn't that good yet and you fail to pick up any girls you'll just reinforce that image.