Sperkzy
09-11-2007, 12:25 PM
This is a story of great victory followed by some failure. So if you are interested in my experience and are able to present me with a couple words of advice please please do so! Anyways:
Hey i'm new to the forums, and I would like to discuss a case I had getting an exotic dancers phone number and getting advice on what I should have done differently after receiving the number. Any advice from anyone would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
LONG EXPLANATION: (if you really don't want to read this whole thing, I did a short one at the bottom. But it really doesn't give all the details).
Well, a couple weeks back, me and my two friends decided it'd be fun to go to LA and check out this new Exotic Club that we haven't seen before. I was a little hesitant on going, because we were going to go the night before but it didnt work out so by the next day I wasnt really that into it anymore, but I went anyways.
Upon arriving (we were pretty early 8ish) we seemed to be the only guys there. So of course the girls flocked to us hoping to get some early bucks. Well this one girl went to me (lets call her, Lily) and sat down next me she was a tall blonde very pretty European girl (she told me she moved here from Europe at age 13) she was a couple years older then me but she didnt seem to mind, and once she sat down she wasn't really grabby over me like most Exotic Dancers are supposed to be, and she just kind of chilled right next to me.
Well, I proceeded to engage conversation and we literally couldnt stop talking. She told me about her boyfriend that just left her and I consoled her on that matter, and she told me that the next day was going to be her last day as a dancer and that she hated doing this job. I agreed with her and told her I believe in her choices and the whole night when she was free she'd run over to me and sit next to me and talk.
I told her I wasn't really in the mood of being there, and she understood and we just talked, and I let her know that I didn't have much money. She didn't care.
Well it was time to leave and I decided to say goodbye to Lily. So I approached her while she was talking with a customer and she shot up and I told her I was leaving and she gave me a big hug and was really sad I was going (it was around 12-1am). Then she said, "Well you should call me if your in town and we can hang out. Do you have my number?" And of course I didn't so I told her "Ahw no I don't." So she told me the number in secret and said, "I cant be seen doing this. I'd get in trouble."
BUT it sucked cause I had no paper or pen on me! So I had to ask her atleast 5-10 times her number so I could remember it (SO EMBARRASSING) and I even left then came back in and asked AGAIN. And I kissed her on the cheek and she giggled and I left.
(And the whole way home, my two friends were basically worshiping me. Haha)
Anyways, I got home and I couldn't sleep, I was to excited. And then it hit me that I have no idea what to do with the number now. So after a long debate with myself I decided to text her to make sure the number was real... I knew she got off at 3:00am. So I waited till 11:00am, (because she works at her other job at 7:00am) and texted her this:
11:50am
"This is (my name). I didnt give you my number. So now you have it!"
And terrified I waited for a response and I got this pretty soon:
11:54am
"hey Sweetie, what are you doing?"
Excited, I quickly typed back.
11:58am
"Nothing Much.... Just trying to get some rest. How are u? Did ya get any sleep?"
She responded rather quickly
12:02pm
"Not much, i got home at like 4 am and then had to get up
and go to my day job :~( "
And finally I responded (Which is where I think I screwed up):
12:03pm
"Ahw, im sry bout that Lily(?) but soon you'll be at your new job! :) "
I put the (?) because that was her dancing name I wanted to see if she'd tell me her real name.
Anyways, this is the last I had heard from her. So sad that she didn't respond back, I had to go on my trip I have been planning for a while, I went on my vacation and during my vacation I decided to try and text her once more 4 days after the day I met her (side note: I knew she was going for another job ) so I texted her something like; "Hey, did ya get the job?" . No response...
So after my vacation it was around 10 days from that day so I decided to do the final deed and call her. (It was a Thursday). And she didnt pick up so I left a message saying, "Hey how you doing. This is (my name). Well, me and my friends are going to be in the LA area today and tomorrow and i'll have some time to kill while they do their thing, we should meet up go to dinner or a movie or whatever you want. Just let me know, call or text me. Thanks, and heres my number: (my number)"
Well... its been a week or so from that call and nothing still... I killed it somehow. But where? How?! Damn, the pick up part is not as hard as it is the afterwards calling part! Argh!
Thanks for reading through my long post, and i'd greatly appreciate ANYONES opinions.
Short Explanation:
Me and my two friends went to a Strip Club, there was this cute European girl there, we chatted it up all night and when I was leaving she got sad and gave me her number telling me to call her if im in the area. So I left, my friends worshiped me on the way home. And I couldn't sleep so the next afternoon I texted her and she texted back twice, and that was it, so I texted her again 4 days after and no response, so I called her 10 days after and left a message and no response. What gives?!
Thank you!
(Oh, and I know about the whole; Exotic Dancers just want the money they dont care about you they just pretend to, yadiyadayada. I have been an active member on an exotic dancer forum and I know pretty well how they think, but this was not a case of me not understanding that she just wanted more business it is clear that she was interested and she expressed that she didnt like the job.)
What I think I did wrong...
I feel as if my age played a big role. Im 20 and shes 22. I think she was feeling me during the night (and I look older then I really am) and she was really into me, but the next morning she sort of realized, "Ergh. I dont think I should be dating a guy younger then me!" Something like that maybe.
Hey i'm new to the forums, and I would like to discuss a case I had getting an exotic dancers phone number and getting advice on what I should have done differently after receiving the number. Any advice from anyone would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
LONG EXPLANATION: (if you really don't want to read this whole thing, I did a short one at the bottom. But it really doesn't give all the details).
Well, a couple weeks back, me and my two friends decided it'd be fun to go to LA and check out this new Exotic Club that we haven't seen before. I was a little hesitant on going, because we were going to go the night before but it didnt work out so by the next day I wasnt really that into it anymore, but I went anyways.
Upon arriving (we were pretty early 8ish) we seemed to be the only guys there. So of course the girls flocked to us hoping to get some early bucks. Well this one girl went to me (lets call her, Lily) and sat down next me she was a tall blonde very pretty European girl (she told me she moved here from Europe at age 13) she was a couple years older then me but she didnt seem to mind, and once she sat down she wasn't really grabby over me like most Exotic Dancers are supposed to be, and she just kind of chilled right next to me.
Well, I proceeded to engage conversation and we literally couldnt stop talking. She told me about her boyfriend that just left her and I consoled her on that matter, and she told me that the next day was going to be her last day as a dancer and that she hated doing this job. I agreed with her and told her I believe in her choices and the whole night when she was free she'd run over to me and sit next to me and talk.
I told her I wasn't really in the mood of being there, and she understood and we just talked, and I let her know that I didn't have much money. She didn't care.
Well it was time to leave and I decided to say goodbye to Lily. So I approached her while she was talking with a customer and she shot up and I told her I was leaving and she gave me a big hug and was really sad I was going (it was around 12-1am). Then she said, "Well you should call me if your in town and we can hang out. Do you have my number?" And of course I didn't so I told her "Ahw no I don't." So she told me the number in secret and said, "I cant be seen doing this. I'd get in trouble."
BUT it sucked cause I had no paper or pen on me! So I had to ask her atleast 5-10 times her number so I could remember it (SO EMBARRASSING) and I even left then came back in and asked AGAIN. And I kissed her on the cheek and she giggled and I left.
(And the whole way home, my two friends were basically worshiping me. Haha)
Anyways, I got home and I couldn't sleep, I was to excited. And then it hit me that I have no idea what to do with the number now. So after a long debate with myself I decided to text her to make sure the number was real... I knew she got off at 3:00am. So I waited till 11:00am, (because she works at her other job at 7:00am) and texted her this:
11:50am
"This is (my name). I didnt give you my number. So now you have it!"
And terrified I waited for a response and I got this pretty soon:
11:54am
"hey Sweetie, what are you doing?"
Excited, I quickly typed back.
11:58am
"Nothing Much.... Just trying to get some rest. How are u? Did ya get any sleep?"
She responded rather quickly
12:02pm
"Not much, i got home at like 4 am and then had to get up
and go to my day job :~( "
And finally I responded (Which is where I think I screwed up):
12:03pm
"Ahw, im sry bout that Lily(?) but soon you'll be at your new job! :) "
I put the (?) because that was her dancing name I wanted to see if she'd tell me her real name.
Anyways, this is the last I had heard from her. So sad that she didn't respond back, I had to go on my trip I have been planning for a while, I went on my vacation and during my vacation I decided to try and text her once more 4 days after the day I met her (side note: I knew she was going for another job ) so I texted her something like; "Hey, did ya get the job?" . No response...
So after my vacation it was around 10 days from that day so I decided to do the final deed and call her. (It was a Thursday). And she didnt pick up so I left a message saying, "Hey how you doing. This is (my name). Well, me and my friends are going to be in the LA area today and tomorrow and i'll have some time to kill while they do their thing, we should meet up go to dinner or a movie or whatever you want. Just let me know, call or text me. Thanks, and heres my number: (my number)"
Well... its been a week or so from that call and nothing still... I killed it somehow. But where? How?! Damn, the pick up part is not as hard as it is the afterwards calling part! Argh!
Thanks for reading through my long post, and i'd greatly appreciate ANYONES opinions.
Short Explanation:
Me and my two friends went to a Strip Club, there was this cute European girl there, we chatted it up all night and when I was leaving she got sad and gave me her number telling me to call her if im in the area. So I left, my friends worshiped me on the way home. And I couldn't sleep so the next afternoon I texted her and she texted back twice, and that was it, so I texted her again 4 days after and no response, so I called her 10 days after and left a message and no response. What gives?!
Thank you!
(Oh, and I know about the whole; Exotic Dancers just want the money they dont care about you they just pretend to, yadiyadayada. I have been an active member on an exotic dancer forum and I know pretty well how they think, but this was not a case of me not understanding that she just wanted more business it is clear that she was interested and she expressed that she didnt like the job.)
What I think I did wrong...
I feel as if my age played a big role. Im 20 and shes 22. I think she was feeling me during the night (and I look older then I really am) and she was really into me, but the next morning she sort of realized, "Ergh. I dont think I should be dating a guy younger then me!" Something like that maybe.