sunn69y
01-27-2007, 06:55 PM
Was I right or wrong
Not A happy Ending
As I write this FR Ive just come back from a weddin reception where I was the best looking groom and I would like to say I'm writting this as a HB7.5 lays on my bed but that would be lying. At least I hear you say I must have got some closes at the reception but that would be wishful thinking or something more PUA(<insert wisdom words/reframe):p
No I've just spent over the last hour pumping up the volume of another man's chic, only to have to turn my back and imagine another chump go and reap and enjoy my hard work while she closes her eyes and thinks of me(I'll remember this and it will give me fuel to fight.)
THe ROOM
To be fair, it was a target poor enviroment even for a wedding, that wasnt to say their wasnt one hot bridesmaid, but a quick look and confirmation (remembering my afc training)confirmed that ring on her wedd finger, was that she was married (moving on, even though she was giving me serious eye ioi's, could be just in my head >If I think it then it was so<)
2HB4'S maybe for social value and get my chatterbox going, I force myself to go walk in full view of room to go sit by them, but really I'm not motivated to open them up(excuses excuses -take note-remember the bigger picture)soon after siiting there like a chump I get called away on groom duties by the same guy who later on moves in on them (he was the best man, but I wonder?)
The Dilema
So I perform my duty and also pick this grooms girlfriend at the bus stop at the same time,whom he had just called up saying I'm in the area come on down(I Also know he's married)
Standing their trying to look my relaxed coolest, this same groom brings over his girl and say's could you look after her please while I go out back and hang with the boys(I dont know whether to be insulted or gratefull)I could hear BIG'S lyrics going through my head "DONT LEAVE YOUR GIRL AROUND ME FOOL, TRUE PLAYA FOR REAL HUH" in the car we had only acknowleged greetings(after watching her lead him through a big hoop)but now I felt my wanabe PUA status was being challenged(here God handed me my opener,I should be at least be able to entertain) but how far should I go and is it right/ethical to game another guys girlfriend even if he's married.
The Sarge
We fluff about the situation I praise the groom for only wanting to do the right thing and such blah blah -SWITCH-she's telling me how she loves phychology and she works in a mental hospital, I ask If it was her fist love she says something else more fluff
I see myself asking her 20 questions--so I have to stop that plus also I fiqure, with my driving skills DHV(take my word for it) and the rapport were having (I'm actually making this girl laugh, I cant belive it, I'm getting good at that)we should be around C2, putting my looks and smile and fact she's laughing, down as attraction.
Now I need a connection, she tells me she went back and fort from St lucia when she was young, I wait and tell her about my first trip back home and the emotion and sensation and wonder attached to it and memories it builds she agree's, the boyfriend comes back (I need faster game! the venue was loud, so handicaped, any surgestion's please, on how to develops faster game 5min-clss)
So I turn my back on her after 5mins of the boyfriends arrival and being completly cut off from the interaction as we vibe (is she just making him jealous I think)
I wanted her to feel what It would feel like without me around her. 5-10mins, later after just standing their saying nothing, she opens me up, So what do you do for a lvng........I fly around the world.......ohh really where was the last place you visited .......Dallas forth-worth (spelling?)fluff dhv story.....puase...I tell her I dont really fly around the world-big joke-she laughs, she's reaching out holding my arm right in front of her boyfriend and I touch her back, too much fun to acknoledge his cold stare(advice on how I could have esclated kino here with boyfriend watching and the fact they have later plans or just good practice)
I drop them off at the hotel he's staying, (lack of kino tell me it's gonna be the first time)making her laugh all the way, on the way home I pray she wrote her number on the magazine I asked her to place beside No joy, I think maybe its good, next time we meet she'll remember me..........nahhh Then I think that's afc forget her, I'm moving on, plenty girls to game:cool:
What I Should have done
I know I should have asked how long they'd known each other, but it seemed too soon or been bolder and asked for the n# but their seemed valid reasons why not too
ps--I'll work on making these FR short!
Not A happy Ending
As I write this FR Ive just come back from a weddin reception where I was the best looking groom and I would like to say I'm writting this as a HB7.5 lays on my bed but that would be lying. At least I hear you say I must have got some closes at the reception but that would be wishful thinking or something more PUA(<insert wisdom words/reframe):p
No I've just spent over the last hour pumping up the volume of another man's chic, only to have to turn my back and imagine another chump go and reap and enjoy my hard work while she closes her eyes and thinks of me(I'll remember this and it will give me fuel to fight.)
THe ROOM
To be fair, it was a target poor enviroment even for a wedding, that wasnt to say their wasnt one hot bridesmaid, but a quick look and confirmation (remembering my afc training)confirmed that ring on her wedd finger, was that she was married (moving on, even though she was giving me serious eye ioi's, could be just in my head >If I think it then it was so<)
2HB4'S maybe for social value and get my chatterbox going, I force myself to go walk in full view of room to go sit by them, but really I'm not motivated to open them up(excuses excuses -take note-remember the bigger picture)soon after siiting there like a chump I get called away on groom duties by the same guy who later on moves in on them (he was the best man, but I wonder?)
The Dilema
So I perform my duty and also pick this grooms girlfriend at the bus stop at the same time,whom he had just called up saying I'm in the area come on down(I Also know he's married)
Standing their trying to look my relaxed coolest, this same groom brings over his girl and say's could you look after her please while I go out back and hang with the boys(I dont know whether to be insulted or gratefull)I could hear BIG'S lyrics going through my head "DONT LEAVE YOUR GIRL AROUND ME FOOL, TRUE PLAYA FOR REAL HUH" in the car we had only acknowleged greetings(after watching her lead him through a big hoop)but now I felt my wanabe PUA status was being challenged(here God handed me my opener,I should be at least be able to entertain) but how far should I go and is it right/ethical to game another guys girlfriend even if he's married.
The Sarge
We fluff about the situation I praise the groom for only wanting to do the right thing and such blah blah -SWITCH-she's telling me how she loves phychology and she works in a mental hospital, I ask If it was her fist love she says something else more fluff
I see myself asking her 20 questions--so I have to stop that plus also I fiqure, with my driving skills DHV(take my word for it) and the rapport were having (I'm actually making this girl laugh, I cant belive it, I'm getting good at that)we should be around C2, putting my looks and smile and fact she's laughing, down as attraction.
Now I need a connection, she tells me she went back and fort from St lucia when she was young, I wait and tell her about my first trip back home and the emotion and sensation and wonder attached to it and memories it builds she agree's, the boyfriend comes back (I need faster game! the venue was loud, so handicaped, any surgestion's please, on how to develops faster game 5min-clss)
So I turn my back on her after 5mins of the boyfriends arrival and being completly cut off from the interaction as we vibe (is she just making him jealous I think)
I wanted her to feel what It would feel like without me around her. 5-10mins, later after just standing their saying nothing, she opens me up, So what do you do for a lvng........I fly around the world.......ohh really where was the last place you visited .......Dallas forth-worth (spelling?)fluff dhv story.....puase...I tell her I dont really fly around the world-big joke-she laughs, she's reaching out holding my arm right in front of her boyfriend and I touch her back, too much fun to acknoledge his cold stare(advice on how I could have esclated kino here with boyfriend watching and the fact they have later plans or just good practice)
I drop them off at the hotel he's staying, (lack of kino tell me it's gonna be the first time)making her laugh all the way, on the way home I pray she wrote her number on the magazine I asked her to place beside No joy, I think maybe its good, next time we meet she'll remember me..........nahhh Then I think that's afc forget her, I'm moving on, plenty girls to game:cool:
What I Should have done
I know I should have asked how long they'd known each other, but it seemed too soon or been bolder and asked for the n# but their seemed valid reasons why not too
ps--I'll work on making these FR short!