Freeze Up!

[pointman]

I am soo tired of my looks working for me like mystery always says "Looks get you the audition." I always get the audition and I can open up very easily with no problem with just dancing or a who do you know here or a have you ever been here before...but thats becuase of the looks and smile...

after i open i can talk for 30 seconds to 1 minute and then I just get bored and freeze up...a lot of girls are soo boring especially the pretty ones that dont talk much...WHAT SHOULD I DO? I NEED ADVICE!

[UTbound]

Try negging them if you haven't already.

[Cr8ton]

I can relate to this somewhat, I have learned that you have to be the one with the material, the stories, the routines.. then the more you bring this out the more the girl will interact, but thats no excuse to let her run the show.. keep control and keep her laughing, thats what will get her attracted. Of course you know all the other things such as negs and DHv's if necessary.. but I think alot of it has to be with you LEADING the convo and keeping her interested. Takes time and practiice and this is the stage which I am also working on improving.

[Alexander Crone]

try an early question game.

or just say nothing and look in her eyes. she will start to talk again if you do it right.

[flip87]

well the whole idea is to build attraction by asking questions. I suggest to try and entertain the set or target. Tell stories...this way they'll feel more comfortable around you. If you tend to freeze up and mumble, then practice at different situation. The girls that you like or interested in are the hardest because you know you have to impress them in order for them to be attracted to you. So what you should do is practice by going to Starbucks, Footlocker, ETC and start a conversation with people you aren't attracted. Then take it to the next step!