Waka
09-08-2007, 11:11 AM
This girl is so strange. She's american, I met her while in Munich, Germany. We were inseperable for ages, and I'm not ashamed to say that I developed a one-itis for this girl pretty quickly.
We've been chatting on msn a lot, and have been pretty much flirting the whole time. She's nicknamed me 'studmuffin', comments on how sexy I am in my facebook pictures, and jokes a lot about how she's going to tie me up and have her way with me, so I'm hoping that means I haven't yet fallen into the friends zone, although I don't really mind, as it's not like a relationship is at all viable.
And now she wants to fly out to meet me.
Now a flight from America to England is obviously pretty major. And my inner (still quite powerful) AFC just can't figure out why she would want to put herself to so much trouble just to see me. I guess I need to work on that.
I have about three months before she gets here. I am to be honest still shocked. I mean I know the game is powerful, but a girl spending loads, and going through an 8 hour flight just to meet me? I still feel like an asshole for making her do it. I feel like it should be me going over there.
And when she gets here, what do I do? I have such strong feelings for this girl I can't even explain it. And I don't want her to feel disappointed after meeting me, after she's gone through so much trouble to get here.
I know this is a terrible way of thinking about it, but seriously I am totally unprepared for this.
What can I do in three months to make sure everything is fine? In case you can't tell I am feeling horribly insecure over the whole deal. I have joined a gym, and am practising game in whatever moments I have available, so I'm hoping that will be enough.
Although I can't help but feel like a right pimp for achieving this and having a girl so into me :D. If I had done this a couple of years or so ago, I would have never even been able to make friends with a girl as cool as this, let alone continued being friends with her. So thanks, the game :).
I am so confused and overwhelmed. Too many feelings, I guess. I have just hit my first properly major milestone in my journey to PUA :p.
We've been chatting on msn a lot, and have been pretty much flirting the whole time. She's nicknamed me 'studmuffin', comments on how sexy I am in my facebook pictures, and jokes a lot about how she's going to tie me up and have her way with me, so I'm hoping that means I haven't yet fallen into the friends zone, although I don't really mind, as it's not like a relationship is at all viable.
And now she wants to fly out to meet me.
Now a flight from America to England is obviously pretty major. And my inner (still quite powerful) AFC just can't figure out why she would want to put herself to so much trouble just to see me. I guess I need to work on that.
I have about three months before she gets here. I am to be honest still shocked. I mean I know the game is powerful, but a girl spending loads, and going through an 8 hour flight just to meet me? I still feel like an asshole for making her do it. I feel like it should be me going over there.
And when she gets here, what do I do? I have such strong feelings for this girl I can't even explain it. And I don't want her to feel disappointed after meeting me, after she's gone through so much trouble to get here.
I know this is a terrible way of thinking about it, but seriously I am totally unprepared for this.
What can I do in three months to make sure everything is fine? In case you can't tell I am feeling horribly insecure over the whole deal. I have joined a gym, and am practising game in whatever moments I have available, so I'm hoping that will be enough.
Although I can't help but feel like a right pimp for achieving this and having a girl so into me :D. If I had done this a couple of years or so ago, I would have never even been able to make friends with a girl as cool as this, let alone continued being friends with her. So thanks, the game :).
I am so confused and overwhelmed. Too many feelings, I guess. I have just hit my first properly major milestone in my journey to PUA :p.