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DarkPrince
01-26-2007, 03:54 PM
Honestly, At this very moment, I just got off the phone with some freinds.. I have been runnign some Material away, blow away their shit tests, and they both taking me to the movies, giving me a ride and paying for me. Aside from all that.

I have no idea how to rate my self, or where i stand in skill level, I know I suck, but I suck naturally. Its like I open, run a few material and than bid the person good bye Right before i feel the conversation dying down. soo.. sometimes i feel it work, other time I dont. today I was complemented that I got a sexy walk(i was proud all my body language work has paid off)

but now im confused and dunno what to do.

should i reset everything and start from scrach? or should i just continue to wing it and see what i can get.

Because I refuse to run anything canned, I go on whatever comes to my mind, trying to make it a lot more natural than canned. but after a while i get a lot of the same conversation.

sorry I just felt like getting this out, Ill do approaches tonight and see how it goes.

much love
-The confused prince

Matador
01-26-2007, 04:20 PM
you need to microcalibrate with field tested material...it can be your own, but should induce the correct emotional response it was designed for...once you have your "tools" down, you should microcalibrate with the material...see ch. 6 in VAH handbook...our new book "The New Model" will address this as well.

DarkPrince
01-26-2007, 07:35 PM
Well of course I went out, but it wasnt in a public place.. but one of my friends friend apologized to me for being a bitch, but i was a bitch back so its okay, like she hit me and ID smack her arm and shed call me a name, id call her blond and so on.. but tonight she apologized for the third time to ANYONE in her life, and the other 2 times was to her best friend whom shes known since she was six. so anyways, I called her hair tacky, in a cute kinda way, and she took it as a insult and she got mad, so later on we went to wafle house, and The girl on the right decided she liked my hat, so i let her try it on, than i took it from her, and insisted on her friend (who was pissed at me at this point) to ware it, at first she didnt, but once she put it on, she was hooked, and she like dominated the hat and opened up! this is the first time, now that i look back on this and see how greatly it effected it, anyways here are some pictures of them!

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v733/DarkPrince101/Photo-0067.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v733/DarkPrince101/Photo-0068.jpg


Also Matador, Thanks for the advice, even though i think my problem is more A2 based than A3, but ill reread those 2 chapters and try it again. thank you so much for the reply man it made me feel that II matter here hehe ^.^

love
-Prince

obie
01-27-2007, 02:04 AM
The first step in learning is confusion.

DarkPrince
01-27-2007, 01:16 PM
ISure hope so, Im still in the process of pushing logic out of my head lol, logic keeps me back, and its hard as heck whenyo u think " dont say bitch" than you turn out and say " you lil bitch" and they giggle insted of slapping you.

obie
01-27-2007, 02:45 PM
Any time you think "I couldn't do that" do it immediately.