how to manage friendship and still be the dominace male?

[husky]

i start losing a lots of afc friends since i got into the game , good friends , and this seem to be a big problem since noone seem to like me being a dick around them anymore , im like steve siffler in the american pie now , which is not very enjoyable
a guy who used to be a good friend is now laughing at my clothes and whatever i do , cus he need to protect his sister >< (he knew im good at this shit)
another friend who doesnt hanging out with me anymore since i kino ascalate the girl he liked
all this alpha male 's act make me feel really good and get me girls , but on the other hand what is the solution for friendship?

[Pipedreamz]

Sounds like you don't know when to turn off that PUA in ur head man. Why are you bein a DICK around ur friends for? Being a dick doesn't have anything to do with the venusian arts.

I don't even understand why you were hitting on a girl who your friend liked. I've had that happen to me once and I trust me its probably one of the worst feelings having a good friend betray you like that

Easy solution. Don't hit on girls you like, dont be an asshole around your friends. When you're out to pick up girls then run game / run game with your friends so ur still chillin with each other

[Blu]

When your running in the game it is hard to slow down for AFC even the friends

[twizt]

your friends hate you because your not being a good enough friend to them. You take the PUA shit and take their pickings, even tho u know they will never approach those girls and you feel it is fair game, it kind of isnt because they are your FRIENDS.

Alpha male means being a cool, uneffected, interesting guy. not the guy who picks on his own friends. If your treating your friends like shit (in the presense of, or in the absense of the ladies) you dont come off as a alpha. More like a douche bag trying to proove himself.

alpha's dont need to PROVE themselves. It's like letting go of a heavy object. The object dropped, the object didn't explain itself as to how it dropped, or how fast it dropped, etc. Nor do you care.. as long as it dropped. This is how the alpha process should be. Seen but not delibertly stated. Being cool around everyone (your AFC friends, or other alpha friends) you will come off as a more sociable individual. not a dickhead as you presently are.

[husky]

tried to teach him some of the pua stuff but he laughed on my face since he s way older (by 5 years)

well i guess i have to find new friends then , since i fucked the girl he liked last weeken , she came to my bedroom with 2 extra-thin condoms ,
and he asked her out for dinner that same night(she showed me the message just to make me jealous)

[husky]

when an AFC friend say that " i want that girl leave her for me " does it mean that i have to stay away from her even though he s not making any fucking moves? and other guys are surrounding her?
anyway she is the hottest girl in class

[Shreddd]

when an AFC friend say that " i want that girl leave her for me " does it mean that i have to stay away from her even though he s not making any fucking moves? and other guys are surrounding her?
anyway she is the hottest girl in class
That's your decision.

If you knew your friends weren't open minded about self improvement stuff, then you shouldn't have even mentioned it to them. Now they are going to think that you can change back by getting rid of all the stuff you've learned so they can have their old friend back. It was a mistake on my part too.

I think you need to have a little talk with your friend. He thinks that he can have special privileges against cockblocks and hotter guys. If you weren't his friend, it would be unrealistic to have that sort of power against the other guys. How would HE like it if you told HIM to back off? Does he not realize that a girl will gravitate towards the guy with more emotional value? Does he not realize that attraction is a feeling and that he can evoke that feeling inside of her too? It's not your fault she doesn't feel attracted towards him. But it is your fault for not giving your friend the opportunities to attract her. Ask him if he wants to know the 7 attraction switches - if he doesn't, ask him to back off because whatever happens, happens, and he can't live life being stuck in the same loop, not willing to experience things outside the box.

[xenos]

If AMOGing is ripping apart your friendships, you are probably doing it too much to your friends. You don't need to be 'above' your friends to be the alpha. That might work toward your disadvantage.

When I want to appear alpha to a woman, I would rather it be silently. To get to this point, I just started explicitly telling my friends what I expected from them, and the same would be returned.
I can give a friend 1 look, have him back off/do whatever and have her wondering how the hell I have so much command over my friends. Add in a little story of how my friends and I have a very strict code of honor between us and boom, major DHVs while staying AMOG.

[Deep]

I have this problem, just not in the same wayy, i feel like an asshole keeping eye contact with freinds in a agressive peircing manner because it makes them feel uncomfortable, and I walk in the house like I got ten pound balls, and I feel bad showing to family im the king type attitude that im adapting, altho i treat them the same looknig in my grandpas eyes with a deep voice I feel like im testing for dominance (as males do) which I never do with family and it makes me feel bad ... anyone know what im talking about?

[stolen crown]

husky- you are not being an AMOG in that situation you are just being a fucking prick...if your boy is interested find a different target regardless of wether or not he makes a move, why? because he is your boy I have about four guys I do this for and they are like my brothers have been a lot longer then I have been into the game, why don't I care when they ask me not to pickup a girl? because it is just another fucking girl, it is not like I am going to say "well fuck my ass that is the only women on earth I can hit on" I can fall in lust with some other scrumpette in five more minutes because they are just objects...shit two weeks ago I closed a 21yr HB7 redhead for a buddy, I just bate and switch then ejected when they got thier hotel room at the casino I was at by heading out to the valet and going to another bar...after that he bought "The Game" I went out with him to the club with a HB8 Brunette on C2 with last weekend it was a good time I couldn't properly wing him since I had the girl with me but he got a lot of practice in as I would just open sets to get some jelously going and then pull him in...

I understand that this PUA thing is really exciting to some of you guys and you all want this playboy lifestyle...trust me as I have expierence that is beyond my post count it can be draining on anyone long term so take a night a week to just decompress usually I get a group of my boys together and we head for a pool hall or something...it helps me keep my bearings.

One of the best lines I have heard regarding the qualities of a real alpha is that alphas are tribal leaders thus they must maintain and care for all members of thier tribe...remember this the next time you are out.

Deep- you are trying too hard staring people down and making interested eyecontact are two different things you just need to learn how do diffierentiate and switch between the two...look at others with the same calm and level type of expression you do during an A3 as you are building trust does your eyecontact differ from other forms of eyecontact? Doing this is important if that gaze is too intense you seem either A: overly agressive or B: extremely insecure