a game plan

[razletazle]

so what if i want to hit on a girl who is sitting all by herself at my local starbux? i see all these girls i want to go pu but they are allways by themselfs and everything on this forum is about group theory. i cant show interest in her friend and neg her since there is no friend around. ne suggestions?

[Eyez]

Make a comment about something that's there.

If she has a laptop,book,drink,just make a comment about that.

Examples:
"Oh cool laptop,I was thinking about getting one of those."

"Oh which drink is that? I may get that one."

"Oh, [Book Name],how is that?"

Whichever one you chose,follow it by saying.

"Oh,I'm [Your name]." and then you can shake her hand,as if you're sorry you didn't introduce yourself.

"Can I join you?"

Her- "Sure."

"I'm not going to be here for long,but you caught my eye."

"Are you from around here?"

"Oh that's cool?"

"So tell me something about yourself."

"Oh that's interesting."

"Yea,I do [Occupation]."
(You can tell a little interesting story,about why you chose the job.)

"Are you here a lot,because I'm surprised I haven't seen you?"

Her- "Yes"

"Well most of the time I come in here,I'm in a rush because I'm busy."

"So,that's probably why."

*Look down at watch or cell phone*

"Damn,I have to get out of here,but I'd love to talk to you again."

If she tells you that she's here all the time,ask her when's the next time she should be here. Then say you'll see her then.

Now if she just gives a blank stare when you say the "I have to go" line,say
"I'd love to get to know more about you................."

"What are you doing [Weekday]?"

Her- "Nothing why?"

"I'm thinking about going to [Location],want to join me?"

"Okay,how can I reach you?"

Get number,email,myspace,whatever. Then leave. If she's stares while you're walking out,do the "arm raise wave" to her before you leave. So she waves back. Now you have a date with her. Just don't mess anything up with her,because then you have to see each other everytime you go to starbucks.

PS...You don't have to use this,if you don't want to. Just a little side help.

[Poetry]

Situational and direct openers have always worked better for me during daygame... but, as they say -- It's only bonus rounds, I rarely find a HB8+ I want to open around here during the day.

[Rocco]

so what if i want to hit on a girl who is sitting all by herself at my local starbux? i see all these girls i want to go pu but they are allways by themselfs and everything on this forum is about group theory. i cant show interest in her friend and neg her since there is no friend around. ne suggestions?

There are PUAs that recomend to use direct openers and go direct in such situations, but I don't have the balls to go direct yet.

[David24]

well, I agree with your tactics, but dont ask if u can join her, just grab a chair while ure talking to her and sit down as nothin happend:)
make sure youre smiling and take youre time when youre gonna answer, things go more sowly in daytime as mystery said on the last episode:P

Peace