Should I "act my age"?

[Jaeger]

I'm about to turn (holy fuck) thirty one years old. I'm confident with that, I missed some goals but I'm on a good track. Most of my friends are from work and they're either older firefighters (with whom I do not sarge) or younger servers/college age people.

Should I "act my age" in my dress and mannerisms, or should I try and "stay young"? I mean, is thirty too old to be spiking my hair and wearing long-sleeved t-shirts under t-shirts? Should I give up on my "go to the local college on a hot day with a frisbee and meet girls" mentality?

[Tommy Sinatra]

If you can pull it off stick with acting younger as long as you can. I'm 30 years old and I regularly go to college bars and ask the girls how old they think I am...I consistently get 22, 23, etc. So you can bet I'm gonna ride this train as long as I can! Last week I closed a 21 year old sorority chick, the week before that I had a smoking hot 19 year old all over my shit. If I had shown up dressed like a 30 year old I never would have had either one. ALso, it depends on where you're going and what you're looking for also. On nights I go to college bars I'm looking for same night lays and practice with younger women. If I'm going out looking for older, more refined women with jobs, I'll go to a nicer bar/loft and dress nicer, but I still keep it edgy. Like I'll wear a really bold blue or red colored sweater with a big ass watch for flash factor. Imagine yourself as a millionaire or a professional baseball player. If that was your job how would you dress when you went out? You'd dress like you were the man and women would notice it. It really is up to you but I say if you can still pull it off go with it. Now I do have this friend of mine who is 29 and he ALWAYS wears t shirts and backwards hats. He wears that wherever we go. He is always wondering why he is not pulling 9's and 10's like I am but it's because his fashion is not consistent with the crowd we're sarging. When we go to a college bar he does good but he doesn't do so good at the nicer places. So, calibration is key.

[Dorje]

Should I "act my age" in my dress and mannerisms, or should I try and "stay young"?

Do whatever you want. Younger women are fun but annoying to talk to a lot of the time IMO, so I like women early 30's or older (I'm 36)... at 30 your options are wide open and if you relate to the younger women and have fun with them then enjoy it!

lol at your friend with the baseball cap and t-shirt, buy him a button down shirt and a hairbrush for when you go somewhere nice :p That might be ok for the teen crowd, but even then...

[Rick Dutch]

What the hell do you mean with "Act my age" ? lol

Dude, i am 32, i will turn 33 in August. I have gf's, one as young as 19!
I go clubbing, partying, travel all over the world to do this for fun and also for work (DJ).
I love hanging out with people, love going to the movies, love having sex, love beeing a father, love cooking and love going out for dinner.
I love listening to 80's music...just as much as i love to listen to the Beatles...just as much as love listening to Motown Classics...just as much as i love listening to everything that has been released ever since! (and i love the hard dance stuff that i make myself).

Basically,

I LOVE LIFE! (And everything in it!)

Why? Because it feels good and because i can!

Dont think about your age to much man, that will make you an old fart (with all respects for old farts ofcourse) ;)

Live your life exactly the way that feels good to you, do what you desire...and live...your life!
Living your life is the key to staying young, feeling young and beeing attractive to young girls!
And add a couple more young girls in your life to top it off with, that will surely make you stay young.

Age...is just a number...not a lifestyle!

And dont you ever forget that!

Now go out...and live a young life! :D

[Pdal931]

Looks for a famous cool rock/pop/urban/actor star of your age and that's more suited to your style, and act like that. If I were 40 my style models would be people like Vin Diesel and Paul Walker in the last fast and furious movies (2009/2011 movies)

[Carewolf]

I'm about to turn (holy fuck) thirty one years old. I'm confident with that, I missed some goals but I'm on a good track. Most of my friends are from work and they're either older firefighters (with whom I do not sarge) or younger servers/college age people.

Should I "act my age" in my dress and mannerisms, or should I try and "stay young"? I mean, is thirty too old to be spiking my hair and wearing long-sleeved t-shirts under t-shirts? Should I give up on my "go to the local college on a hot day with a frisbee and meet girls" mentality?

Act your age? Short answer: No

Men are allowed to be boys at any age, and you should not try to hide it.

On the other hand, do take advantage of the natural maturity you have. The masculine maturity is a powerful aphrodisiac on girls.

In other words: Look and act mature, but don't be afraid to have fun and do whatever your did when you were 20.

Btw, age is relative. A fun game to try out: As always have girls guess your age. The more attracted they are to you the closer they will guess your age to their own. I have had a 16 year old girl guess me to be 19, and a 37 year old guess me to be 38, on the very same night, dressed and acting exactly the same.

[SusanC]

Age is only in your head. Acting your age is only as old as you feel. If you can pull off spike hair at 30 go for it. They say older women shouldn't be wearing mini s but there are a lot of hot older women who can wear minis and you would think they're a lot younger.