FR: Asking 50 Girls, “How about a fuck?”

[*V*]

Wednesday, August 8, 2007. I wake up. I look at my clock and it’s reading 11:37 AM. I decide today is the day that I change my life. I am tired of worrying about what may or may not happen. I get pissed from all the time I spent worrying. I am a virgin and am curious to know what my chances of getting laid are.

On the Fast Seduction 101 Player Guide, which you can download in PDF format here (http://www.becomingapua.com/2007/02/13/player-guide-update/), there is a cold approach that I was always fascinated with ever since reading it over a year ago.

The “how about a fuck?” routine goes like this:

Him: Hi, my name’s Dave, what’s yours?
Her: (typically) Griselda.
Him: Right, Griselda, now we’re on first name terms, how about a fuck?


It’s based on the infamous Grand Master style. It was said that, by doing this seriously, you will have a 1 in 25 chance of getting a yes. To prevent from getting slapped you say “just kidding” if she really gets pissed off.

It doesn’t say if its for day game, or night game, or both.

I eat breakfast, have a shower, and get dressed as nice as I can; bronzer, white shoes, nice jeans, white belt, blue polo shirt, sunglasses, and disheveled hair. I leave the house and take the bus to a well populated place far from the house.

I arrive at the local University and I am getting more and more nervous. It’s summer, so the campus is quite barren during classes.

I decide that I should “warm up”. I approach 3 girls and ask where I find the campus center. They kindly point the way. I want to get these 25 girls out of the way so I don’t continue on these conversations.

So here are the stats I got from the girls on campus during day game:
Girl 1:
HB6
Response To “how about a fuck?” Routine: You’re joking right?
My Response: *Smile* Yeah

Girl 2:
HB7
Response To “how about a fuck?” Routine: *Look of disgust and walks away from me*

Girl 3
HB6
Response To “how about a fuck?” Routine: No!
My Response: (I get slapped here) I was just joking. (I don’t continue the conversation)

Girl 4
HB7.5
Response To “how about a fuck?” Routine: No.
My Response: *Smile* Just kidding. (Walk away)

Girl 5
HB7.5
Response To “how about a fuck?” Routine: (Something about her trying to read and if I think she’s a slut then I have a problem . . . )
My Response: (I just walk away)

Girl 6
HB5
Response To “how about a fuck?” Routine: Ummmm. Fuck off.
My Response: (walk away)

Girl 7
HB6
Response To “how about a fuck?” Routine: No thanks. Freak.
My Response: (walk away)

Girl 8
HB7
Response To “how about a fuck?” Routine: (gives me an odd look)
My Response: (walk away)

Girl 9
HB4
Response To “how about a fuck?” Routine: Are you calling me a slut?
My Response: No . . . it’s just a joke . . . (she doesn’t think I am joking, so I smile and walk away)

Girls 10 - 25
From girls 10 to 25 I just run through them not wasting time to write anything down. I know that I got slapped two more times and got ZERO “Yes” responses.

I get back home and make some supper. Sure my cheek hurt, but I’m still alive. I let out a little laugh. I decide to hit the gym and do some reading till around 11 PM.

Since I survived the day game of “how about a fuck? I decided to try night game. I waited to go to the bars after midnight, because girls tend to be buzzed and easier to talk to.

I didn’t want to look like a pervert writing a bunch of shit down after getting yelled at, so I didn’t write the details down. I just put marks on my arm each time I did the “how about a fuck?” routine.

I arrive downtown at 12:15 AM in my dads new car. The main bars in my city are on a single strip, so if one bar isn’t that great you just go down the block. I hit up 3 bars in the night. Each time a girl got really loud, so loud that people looked at me, I left the bar. I did get slapped, though since my face was still a little numb from the day they didn’t hurt too much. The results from asking 25 girls the “how about a fuck?” routine resulted in 3 “Yes” responses. I personally did not want to lose my virginity to these girls who said “Yes”.

Even though I did get 3 “Yes” responses during night game I still went to bed alone.

My ratio from the “how about a fuck?” routine -> 1:16.667

[Dox]

Wait, wait, wait...in your last FR you said that you fucked the girl in your pool, and in this one you say you're a virgin.

*scratches head*

[*V*]

Wait, wait, wait...in your last FR you said that you fucked the girl in your pool, and in this one you say you're a virgin.

*scratches head*

Read the first sentence.

"Wednesday, August 8, 2007."

This is a field report from my blog that I posted today on the forum.

V

[Dox]

Bah, my bad...I completely had a brain fart and thought that it was the beginning of August rather than September...damn time-travelling brain.

[Mojo]

Interesting FR. I have heard of this method though never have tried it. Were all these women alone upon approach? Were there any similiarities with the ones that said "yes" or the ones that said "no"?

[LadiesMan]

Way Back in September 2004, I used this on the insistence of some guy who is pretty good at using this.Can't remember his name.

Here's what the routine I used was:

Me: Hi..Don't take my bluntness for disrespect but I think you are sexy, and I'd like to know if you wanna fuck or not.. *Body positioning away*. If your answer is anything but a yes,, don't bother saying anything, because I know girls like sex more than guys do..(*A litte playful grin*).So do you wanna fuck?

I did this on 15 girls and I got 3 yeses.. And I laid one..

So it can be done, but I don't use it and don't recommend people who have little experience use t..I was doing this for research purposes..

Having said that, it's great that you went out and tried it.

[phoenix]

If theres a boyfriend near that you dont see, i can tottally see him kicking your ass for saying that.I'd make damn sure the girl was alone.

[Precise]

very intresting. if im ever somewhere where i dont feel like trying, ill try it out

[sinic]

Haha, great FR. If you want to try this sort of pickup I suggest you buy the book "Mode One". It is completely direct and he always says "I want to fuck you" or at least along those lines. It's all about body language and tonality. I think he's pretty serious as opposed to friendly/joking. I think for this to work you have to be very dominant. Personally, I've never tried it, it's certainly not my style.

[Rocco]

Get slapped by girls who don't know you just for asking them "how about a fuck?"???

Are you kidding??

Do you look childish or something??

Which girl would dare to slap a stranger just for a question, whatever the question is??

The girl could get reported to the police for physical aggression or most probably risk to get hit and even get killed by the stranger if he is crazy, as a retaliation.

[Arborian]

ahahahahahahahahaha HOLY BALLS THATS AWESOME

I give you + infinite points. you, sir, are a genious

[Voice]

I remember Dr Phil saying once that if you ask 500 girls on a date eventually one will say yes ;) he thought this was good advice for lonely men. I think it completely sucks.

First of all though congratulations on having the guts to get out there and approach that many girls. But they will all remember you as that asshole and it'll spread like wildfire eventually if you keep this up. You won't get in anywhere. Not to mention the risk of running into the wrong girl and getting killed by her bf and gang. As mentioned before.

You even said you got a yes 3 times! but you weren't interested. So why did you bother? I know when I go out(side even) I like to play mindgames on people for fun and lately also practice. But this doesn't make any sense. You just go up to girls you don't even want. It's a waste of time if you ask me. And I'm not very interested in the results.

Besides I'd rather get laid by the same girl over and over again (eventually being able to experiment with her, try out new things. perhaps even build a lasting serious relationship, get to know her better) than to just fuck some random slutty girl who says yes right off the bat. I've never been into that. But that's just me then. I actually like putting the effort into getting a girl I otherwise wouldn't have. There's more to girls than just some holes to fuck. Maybe that's why you're still a virgin if you don't realize that. Women usually sense when men are desperate for sex and not for anything serious. Even if you're honest about it you'll only be used for their pleasure and your first time will be a dissapointing experience. Perhaps even damage your confidence for life. I've seen it happen before.

I want to be seen as a playfull jerk but a good guy overall. Not just a jerk and that's it. but....that's just me. Ofcourse I'm also horny. I just don't act directly on those urges. Building sexual tention makes it alot more fun actually ;)

[the one]

"hey wanna fuck"
"NO!. You ASShole I'm not a slut" *SLAP*
"So I guess a blowjob is out of the question then?"

[*V*]

Interesting FR. I have heard of this method though never have tried it. Were all these women alone upon approach? Were there any similiarities with the ones that said "yes" or the ones that said "no"?

Were all these girls alone when you approached?
- No, they weren't all alone. When I did approach a girl in a set I asked her in a tone that her friends wouldn't hear. During the day I would have to get close to her ear, during night game some bars/clubs were loud enough that I could yell and others wouldn't hear.

Were there any similiarities in the ones that said "yes"?
- One thing I noticed with some of the "Yes" girls was that when I said "Hi" they would look at my face, take a quick glance at the rest of my body, and look back at my face. If a girl turned and looked at me with the "What the hell do you want?" look, then I knew I was in trouble.

[*V*]

If theres a boyfriend near that you dont see, i can tottally see him kicking your ass for saying that.I'd make damn sure the girl was alone.

That's why you train in martial arts. If someone does give you trouble then you have a fighting chance against angry boyfriends.

V

[*V*]

Get slapped by girls who don't know you just for asking them "how about a fuck?"???

Are you kidding??

Do you look childish or something??

Which girl would dare to slap a stranger just for a question, whatever the question is??

The girl could get reported to the police for physical aggression or most probably risk to get hit and even get killed by the stranger if he is crazy, as a retaliation.

In North America most guys are pussies. So there is little a guy would do when slapped by a girl. I am said to have an "innocent face". I don't come across as a crazy stranger that will kill them, so they slap away.

I've also been slapped much harder during other "sarges" :)

V

[ReallyPatheticFatSlob]

Being slapped is a subtle and masochistic way to KINO.

I'm surprised you weren't arrested for harassment.

Three girls, you threw away three perfectly good pussies. It just goes to show that if you approach enough women, you can get laid. Even though it's not the women you might want.

3 out of 50 isn't that bad considering that some guys approach 500 sets and barely get a few flaky phone numbers.

[jBrett]

See my problem with this is that you did it and you weren't taking it seriously. In fact you didn't even have the intent of following through if they said YES. I'd love to see someone do this who actually wants to back it up.

[Vesha]

I think this whole experiment was really bad ass and took a lot of balls. Most importantly I'm sure lots of good info can be had that might be applied to other areas. I wish more guys whole just go out and do straight up experiments. Taylor Durden did a lot of these and I think that's what made him so go.

How good looking are you?

How good looking where the girls you approached?

Did you ever thinking of dodging the slap or high-fiveing them and saying "Alright another yes?"

What type of girl said yes and did you think they were serious or said it in a joking manner?

[*V*]

See my problem with this is that you did it and you weren't taking it seriously. In fact you didn't even have the intent of following through if they said YES. I'd love to see someone do this who actually wants to back it up.

That would mean someone is desperate, which is a bad place to come from. If you desire anything than you are telling yourself that you aren't perfect without your desire(s). When you lose everything you are free to do anything.

[~Courage~]

I am considering trying this... I consider myself to be a good looking guy, so this may go somewhere. If I do it, I will be taking it seriously and report on the forums. Only problem I'm having is Rochester NY is like the 3rd Gonorrhea capital of the world..

[Couture]

Haha this is the funniest field report ever.

[SeattleWilly]

Interesting report. I am thinking to myself... why would I burn 50 good vaginas to get only 2 (1 out of 25 are supposed to say yes)?

I wonder what the numbers would be for a woman to do the same thing with 50 men?

Peace

[DarkerSide]

The exact opposite. Because 2 out of 50 men are either gay or can't get it up.

Interesting report. I am thinking to myself... why would I burn 50 good vaginas to get only 2 (1 out of 25 are supposed to say yes)?

I wonder what the numbers would be for a woman to do the same thing with 50 men?

Peace