Epicure
02-08-2011, 08:14 AM
I would like to get back to discussing Game for guys above 40.
We fellows above 40 might still be attracted to women in their mid to late 20s, but, what I have observed is that I really have to disqualify myself to them so that their creepy-old-guy sensor alarm does not go off. Discovery has talked to me about the idea of applying the sales funnel strategy to Game. I understand that to mean that in sales, whether it be yachts or cars or houses, you make a tons of calls, and from those calls, a few less people show some interest, and then a smaller subset make further inquiries, and from that subset, a few will buy. It is a cascade or a funnel. You need to make many calls to get the sales. I think some younger guys expect to master game, walk in to a club, and get every girl they open. What is the number one attraction switch, boys? From everything I have been taught in Boot Camps and observed when I did live in-fields on the boot camps, and from what my friends in Game tell me and from my own experiences, the NUMBER ONE ATTRACTION SWITCH is PRE-SELECTION. So, what I have been working on is making friends with younger women, and then getting them to the point that they feel that I will not hit on them, but just want to go to clubs with them. I am quite direct and have told a couple of young women that they are too young for me, but that I like them as friends, and they look to me for proection and dating advice about men. They undestand that I am using them as pivots or wings, and that I will provide them with value, too. My goal is to build a constellation of female orbiters who might be young but enjoy my company. The further goal is that I will have pretty girls who will go out with me, and that through pre-selection, they help me get the older women. The idea I got from Discovery is to not focus on getting laid, but to focus on bringing more women in to my life and developing my social circle. Also, if I have many younger female friends who know I will not hit on them, then that will provide me with social proof that will be seen by other young women outside of my immediate circle. I do feel there is value in cultivating female friends that you don't game to f-close, but use in social game. I feel that this is important for men of any age, but is a great tool for older guys.
Opinions brothers?
We fellows above 40 might still be attracted to women in their mid to late 20s, but, what I have observed is that I really have to disqualify myself to them so that their creepy-old-guy sensor alarm does not go off. Discovery has talked to me about the idea of applying the sales funnel strategy to Game. I understand that to mean that in sales, whether it be yachts or cars or houses, you make a tons of calls, and from those calls, a few less people show some interest, and then a smaller subset make further inquiries, and from that subset, a few will buy. It is a cascade or a funnel. You need to make many calls to get the sales. I think some younger guys expect to master game, walk in to a club, and get every girl they open. What is the number one attraction switch, boys? From everything I have been taught in Boot Camps and observed when I did live in-fields on the boot camps, and from what my friends in Game tell me and from my own experiences, the NUMBER ONE ATTRACTION SWITCH is PRE-SELECTION. So, what I have been working on is making friends with younger women, and then getting them to the point that they feel that I will not hit on them, but just want to go to clubs with them. I am quite direct and have told a couple of young women that they are too young for me, but that I like them as friends, and they look to me for proection and dating advice about men. They undestand that I am using them as pivots or wings, and that I will provide them with value, too. My goal is to build a constellation of female orbiters who might be young but enjoy my company. The further goal is that I will have pretty girls who will go out with me, and that through pre-selection, they help me get the older women. The idea I got from Discovery is to not focus on getting laid, but to focus on bringing more women in to my life and developing my social circle. Also, if I have many younger female friends who know I will not hit on them, then that will provide me with social proof that will be seen by other young women outside of my immediate circle. I do feel there is value in cultivating female friends that you don't game to f-close, but use in social game. I feel that this is important for men of any age, but is a great tool for older guys.
Opinions brothers?