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sunn69y
01-25-2007, 04:03 AM
More of a query than anythin else, plus also if you guys have got some fun/horror stories to tell I would love to hear them.

Query--if its the task of a pua to meet and attract lots of women, when valentine's come's around is this a good thing for a pua or a bad thing, I mean, we dont lie to women and we make our intentions clear from the start, but come around that day when all those women are gonna wanna hook up with someone and if ur answer is no, then their gonna know even though she understands the pua see's other pips she's not your number 1. (not their yet myself) Now can this have some negative comebacks at a later time or what's the best way to let a girl who wants to hang with you on this "supposedly most romantic time" that (to be honest)your gonna be with someone else

Request----Could guys also post the best or previous best valentine surgestions especially the ones that dont cost much cash (still recovering from xmas and NYE Plus a wedding low cash) that make your day better than the average non pua's

I would also like to hear any discussions on whether its best not to date and simple go out sarging, I mean any women not with a date is bound to be a sure fire emotional target between not having a man a date and everbody else in lovers mode

Sunn69y

Valentine
01-25-2007, 10:55 AM
Query--if its the task of a pua to meet and attract lots of women,

Not necessarily. The PUA's aim is to be able to choose his women, whether it's just one at a time or five at a time.

when valentine's come's around is this a good thing for a pua or a bad thing, I mean, we dont lie to women and we make our intentions clear from the start, but come around that day when all those women are gonna wanna hook up with someone and if ur answer is no, then their gonna know even though she understands the pua see's other pips she's not your number 1.

If you want to manage mLTRs I think it's better all around to treat them equally. If you give them all something, they are going to subconsciously attach value to anything that they perceive to be different, so you should give them all the same to avoid making any of them jealous.

(not their yet myself) Now can this have some negative comebacks at a later time or what's the best way to let a girl who wants to hang with you on this "supposedly most romantic time" that (to be honest)your gonna be with someone else

If you really must see only one girl on Valentine's day, whatever answer you get here is going to involve choosing the lesser of two 'evils'.

Shouldn't the successful PUA be able to see all of his mLTRs on Valentine's day?

Request----Could guys also post the best or previous best valentine surgestions especially the ones that dont cost much cash (still recovering from xmas and NYE Plus a wedding low cash) that make your day better than the average non pua's

What a wonderful day to have the mLTRs around for a Dual Induction massage (and the threesome/foursome that follows) at no cost to yourself :p.
Get them all involved on equal terms, give them some mutliple orgasms (if you can) and they'll all be getting something special.

I would also like to hear any discussions on whether its best not to date and simple go out sarging, I mean any women not with a date is bound to be a sure fire emotional target between not having a man a date and everbody else in lovers mode

Sunn69y

If you haven't got an LTR, go sarging, but if you have got an LTR/mLTR you don't have to take them on a date to give them a good time.

DoubleBishop
01-25-2007, 03:47 PM
I'm born on Valentines day..... Just use that and make them take YOU out.

sunn69y
01-25-2007, 10:43 PM
thanx for the feedback guys enlightning

Can I ask also ask having met a woman less than a month ago (no outings yet-due to this&that)am I right in thinking it would heave to much pressure or surgestion to hook up on this day simple because its valentine's or is one expected too simply because its valentine, and how/should I be the first to bring this up?





"DoubleBishop I'm born on Valentines day..... Just use that and make them take YOU out. " ---very interesting Reframe, it has multiple use's

Valentine
01-25-2007, 11:19 PM
thanx for the feedback guys enlightning

Can I ask also ask having met a woman less than a month ago (no outings yet-due to this&that)am I right in thinking it would heave to much pressure or surgestion to hook up on this day simple because its valentine's or is one expected too simply because its valentine, and how/should I be the first to bring this up?


Just treat it as if it were any other day, and don't call it Valentine's day, call it Thursday (or whatever day it is). Do something nice WITH her (not FOR her).
Just don't go nuts and splash out on everything, Game rules still apply, you're not trying to bribe her to stay with you - she's supposed to stay with you because of the feelings she has for you.

DoubleBishop
01-26-2007, 01:09 AM
"DoubleBishop I'm born on Valentines day..... Just use that and make them take YOU out. " ---very interesting Reframe, it has multiple use's


I know. I am very lucky aye :), i'm sure it wouldstill worked if you just pretended it was your bday aswell :P