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husky
08-31-2007, 08:54 AM
do you use negs when she start seeking for attentions , like i was using magic for DHV then the target start going like" do it to me do it to me ", should i neg her ?
i like the "hand of the merchandise " neg it works so effective but some time the obstacles start touching me too , just to piss me off WTF should i do? negging the obstacle too?

Frame
08-31-2007, 09:04 AM
Straight away:

you:Hey
Girl/s:Hey
you: I can only stay for a couple of minutes, I've got to get back to my buddies, but I wanted to ask you girls a question.
Girls: Ok
You: I love your dress by the way, it's really nice, in fact there was a girl in earlier wearing the exact same dress, anway...[continue with operner]

If a her friend comes along "Introduce me to your friend, it's polite"

If fitting: "Is she always this roudy? How do you hang out with her!?"

xenos
08-31-2007, 11:02 AM
what frame said.
You have to neg a bit until she realizes that you don't care about her good looks. Some girls take 1 and are so self conscious (9s and 10s usually) while others take 2 or more (8s usually in my experience) and others take compliments instead (0s to 6s/7s)

Frame
08-31-2007, 11:58 AM
what frame said.
You have to neg a bit until she realizes that you don't care about her good looks. Some girls take 1 and are so self conscious (9s and 10s usually) while others take 2 or more (8s usually in my experience) and others take compliments instead (0s to 6s/7s)
I'd agree with you there on the most part. You are right when you say that 0-6/7's react better to compliments than negs this fits with what you said about demonstrating you're not intimidated by their good looks, 8-10's are used to being complimented by guys trying to fuck them, they look down on guys who do that. However, girls who are >7 tend to be more self conscious and will respond to a compliment becuase it will boost their self esteem and make them feel good.

I think, Xenos, that 9/10's should be dealt with by throwing more negs at them, it's true that deep down they are very self conscious just like the 6's; but to earn their respect and build attraction you have to show you're not fazed by their looks, then, instead of complimenting their looks, complement them when they say something intelligent, or demonstrate there is more to them than their looks.

-Frame

oscarkool2
08-31-2007, 02:16 PM
you can usually tell if a neg is necesary to throw out. I just like to tease a lot and a neg is a form of teasing but teasing at most opportunities is really fun. If you throw out a neg and she doesnt like it, respond with "im just teasing, having a little fun." but at this point, it might be worth it to jet because girls that cant handle teasing are not fun to be around in the long run. in other words, BORING!