so i have no idea where to start

[razletazle]

im turning nineteen in november, and ive never actually had a girlfriend. its pathetic. im starting college and ive realized that i need help when it comes to women. however i dont know where who what that help is. my brother introduced me to the show "the pick up artist" and he told me to do a search online and it brought me to this forum. i have lots of female friends but thats just it. every one i have ever tried to start a relationship has locked me into the friends zone, and im sick of it and im ready for a change. ive been advised to go get the book by style, "the game". im getn that later today, but if you all would send some help my way i would appreciate any and all help. if there are any other books or sites or anything please let me know.
thanx,
razletazle

[TacoRemix]

you have aim? I have a lot of material you can use that I have stashed up on my computer, E-Books and the like. In fact, E-mail me at tnt_ink@yahoo.com

as far as where to start, I started this whole thing with a project in my first month of college, it was supposed to be a joke, but i read into it, and i kinda got sucked into the community. David Deangelo has some good stuff, and make sure to learn the whole mystery method, don't wait for the pickup artist show to tell you all that, it goes in depth, just e-mail me.

[Sloan]

The best advice that I've gotten is to not focus on results. Don't approach a girl thinking "There is my future girlfriend." If you just focus on applying your game then good things will happen. Focusing on results will only make you nervous, which will cripple you.

[DateDemon]

Dude the first week just get used to things and try to meet people. After that my advice besides reading material and stuff, and besides listening to FREE podcasts! like www.pickuppodcast.com and other stuff is to just try to meet like 1 person per day! once you get that easily down increase it to like 2-3-4 etc. Eventually you will be making a ton of friends and connections and get a ton of #'s. Just think if you met like 15 people a week by the time you are a senior you will know a ton of people

[oscarkool2]

ive been in the game for awhile and have read or watched many of the products out there. The most important thing for a newb is to start off reading stuff on inner game. this is hands down the best way to go (first change your mind, then change yourself). Youll save yourself a LOT of trouble if you hold back from finding "tips on getting girls." work on inner game first. i recommend that you get carlos xumas alpha man book and read through that before anything else. its a 400 page book so itll take awhile to get through, but do it, its a great book. i am really serious about avoiding finding the quick tip. these tips come from pros who spent years developing their game and you must be near that level in order to pull the tips off. work on your inside, then your outside. and stop 'liking' girls you think are hot and havent really gotten to know (oneitis..)

[phoenix]

I've realized that ive never really had a girl friend ( a few one week things, but i dont cont them) because my standards are too high.

there are problems with every girl, very serious ones.

so ive decided to say fuck it.

nothing gives you social proof like a girlfriend.


and yes, i plan to sarge the hell outta my town, even once i sart dating a girl.

[razletazle]

thank you all for the advice...but know i have a question? how do i go about developeing inner game? that sounds like a good place to start. thanx again for your replies

[TacoRemix]

David Deangelo - 'deep inner game' and 'on being a man' it's worth the price!

[adept2007]

Books to check out:

Unlimited Power- Anthony Robbins: good for NLP and inner game

Robert Greene: Art of Seduction and pertinent but not as much as the others (48 laws of power and 33 strategies of war) but both interesting reads and can teach you a lot about psychology.

Also i think there is already a books to read thread, so check it out probably has a lot of good suggestions already.

[oscarkool2]

48 laws of power is also a good ass book. And on Rewoks comments: i agree completely with what he said. I wasnt implying that you stay in and read inner game stuff all day lol, but you should read up and study inner game stuff at night before bed or when youre at home doing nothing, then when you are out during the day, put what youve studied to work. open up sets, chat with schoolmates, etc. just make sure you dont breeze through the books. thats why i said study. read a little bit each night. dwell on what youve learned. take notes. dont read 100 pages in a day (unless of course its stuff you already know).