I need help on this one QUICKLY my friends!!!

[Anestis]

ok, so the story is I have a good friend named david, his girfriend is a croatian and has a croatian friend named EMA(TARGET), now we have all been clubbing a lot lately , but I never talked much with ema because I was to busy sarging all other girls in the club, pluss she is a perfect 9! so i thought to get some more practice before i hit on her... Now theres been one month since I moved to the states from Greece, my english is fluent, and today I had enough on when I saw her picture on myspace so I sent her:

THE BOTTOM OF THIS MESSAGE IS THE START(AND YES THIS IS EXACTLY WHT SHE WROTE):

i would telll you buttt i need to go to workrkkk lol im almost lateeee.

illll message you when i gettt offf

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Anestis
Date: 29 Aug 2007, 13:24


Tell me somethin about u tht is interesting in any way


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ema♥
Date: Aug 29, 2007 1:22 PM


idkkkkk

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Anestis
Date: 29 Aug 2007, 13:21


Give it a guess

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ema♥
Date: Aug 29, 2007 1:20 PM


in what wayy..what do u mean lol

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Anestis
Date: 29 Aug 2007, 13:19


Because we are way too alike

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ema♥
Date: Aug 29, 2007 1:17 PM



lol why
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Anestis
Date: 29 Aug 2007, 13:10


U n me would never get along
















Ok, now my problem is wtf to do from here? Now she knows I banged this chick in the bathroom last weekend at a club, and she knows ive been flying around with a new girl every weekend... but i dont know if she cares about tht or not...... because this is the longest conversation Ive had with her and it took me all my pride to send her the first message!
Now I REALLY dont want to mess this up because i dont want my friends to think bad about me....

I sincirely hope some mPUA out there can help me!



Peace

[Anestis]

ANYBODY WITH IDEAS PLEASE POST THEM EVEN if they sound stupid=)

[Poetry]

Judging by the timestamps -- you sent message after message in quick succession, that's your first problem; you're conveying too much interest in a small amount of time -- Granted, this isn't a cold approach since you know each other, but you two don't talk that much either.

You had the right idea with the hoops, but again, right after the other -- and never answering any sort of question she asked. When she said "How, in what way?" you could have elaborated (or finished the routine) 'We are too alike, we'd fight all the time [and I would win].' (insert C+F or playful joke here).

Really, online 'game' isn't hard at all -- and I don't see the point in it, but you should have played this one completely different. Next time, don't be so eager to reply to her, and don't make it seem like she's being interrogated.

[Eyez]

Now do you want a relationship with this girl,or just a hookup?

Or are you not sure?

When she gets back. She's most likely forgot about your "tell me something interesting comment".

If she hasn't forgotten,and gives an answer. Use that to spark up a convo.

Now in the next message,you can ask if she has aim,or some other kind of instant messaging. In the online world,the closest you can get to feeling like you're actually having a convo is through instant messaging. Now if you break the ice through online chatting,it can make the process a little smoother.

Now when you get her on an instant messaging convo,or whatever. You can message me on aim,for some instant messaging tips. My screen name is thehobkidd

Good luck

[Markcus]

hmm am gonna give ya slighty different approach how eva all the above are great to.
from the facts you know this gal, u've been clubbing with her before soo your not a total stranger. progressing to im is a great idea but why don't you just the number.
say you busy and neva hav much time to go on myspace...and ask her for number...

[Eyez]

hmm am gonna give ya slighty different approach how eva all the above are great to.
from the facts you know this gal, u've been clubbing with her before soo your not a total stranger. progressing to im is a great idea but why don't you just the number.
say you busy and neva hav much time to go on myspace...and ask her for number...

Yea I agee

The only reason I gave the idea of IM,is because it gives you the comfort of pauses. So while on lets say,aim,the pauses can be the connection or whatever. If you're on the phone running game,you may have awkward pauses. On aim,you have the comfort of pauses to run the material. Although the number is good. Why not get the number,and still talk online?

But thats why I gave the idea. The phone number is always better though.

[Anestis]

I think poetry was the one closest to the ideas I ws thinking about, although getting the number in this case would be wrong, dont get me wrong she would give it to me... but im playing the cards of social proof here...

like poetry said, i could have said we would have fighted a lot but then again she would she why do u think so?
damn im so clueless when it comes to doing it myself, while when others ask its seems so easy:P Thanx for all the good tips guys! please keep them coming!

ohh and does anyone have msn?

peace

[Eyez]

I'll make one and add it to my profile

[TacoRemix]

Remember it's all about busting her balls! And have a mindset that you're the prize! She said she WOULD tell you BUT she had to go do stuff.

so

you respond with something like "oh, okay, that means you aren't very interesting then are you?" or say how it's a simple question, she doesn't need to take all day to think about it. you need a girl who can think quick! Whatever gets her to qualify herself to you. it's money.

And yes, a number would be good. myspace is alright too, since you already met her in person you don't risk the "lets just be pen pals" thing.

[oscarkool2]

You bang chicks in bathrooms and fly with new women every week and you can't type literatlly or calibrate a simple text message?

You're on your own.

-Rewok

LOL

yea i was like "wait, what?"

[A.J.]

my advice, stop sucking at msn game :mad: you dont just throw out qualifications the second you start talking. you start with amping attraction through CF, push pull and other attraction tools. THEN once she has hit her hook point you can qualify (otherwise she will react the way she did with you basically not caring enough to give you a straight answer)

and btw dont use lines unless you know where to go with them. i saw you tried to use the "we would never get along, were too similar" line. fine if you use it properly but it looked like you were just frantically throwing out lines as if they had some magical proprty to make her stay and want to talk.

if you throw out lines without thinking not only does it seem unauthentic but it also makes you seem tryhard. kinda like the dancing monkey but shittier cause she wasnt even entertained enough to watch you

ps im sorry if i sound like an asshole, i know your new and i should be nicer, but msn game is easy to master, i want you to get good, if it takes some tuff love then so be it

[TacoRemix]

my advice, stop sucking at msn game :mad: you dont just throw out qualifications the second you start talking. you start with amping attraction through CF, push pull and other attraction tools. THEN once she has hit her hook point you can qualify (otherwise she will react the way she did with you basically not caring enough to give you a straight answer)

and btw dont use lines unless you know where to go with them. i saw you tried to use the "we would never get along, were too similar" line. fine if you use it properly but it looked like you were just frantically throwing out lines as if they had some magical proprty to make her stay and want to talk.

if you throw out lines without thinking not only does it seem unauthentic but it also makes you seem tryhard. kinda like the dancing monkey but shittier cause she wasnt even entertained enough to watch you

ps im sorry if i sound like an asshole, i know your new and i should be nicer, but msn game is easy to master, i want you to get good, if it takes some tuff love then so be it

A.J. don't apologize for your behavior. And you are right, bud. Though what I noticed was it was the equivalence of the pause. usually... the dots, and commas, will help with pausing! ;)

at any rate, I liked the way he delivered the "we wouldn't get along" gambit. It's more interactive and it would leave the women asking "wait.. why wouldn't we get along? we could get along!" so good show!

[Poetry]

A.J. don't apologize for your behavior. And you are right, bud. Though what I noticed was it was the equivalence of the pause. usually... the dots, and commas, will help with pausing! ;)

at any rate, I liked the way he delivered the "we wouldn't get along" gambit. It's more interactive and it would leave the women asking "wait.. why wouldn't we get along? we could get along!" so good show!

The 'We wouldn't get along' routine shouldn't be an open-ended question; sure, the target has a chance to qualify herself -- but more often than not she'll go, "ok, we won't then."

You want it to convey un-neediness and a willingness to disapprove and critique her, at the same time remaining playful and interesting. It can be used as a neg and a DHV if used correctly; however, as an open ended question you're prone to losing her attention completely.

[Anestis]

ok first of all to you guys who wen what wait a second, youre screwing girls in the bathroom blah blah blah...
newsflash: I find it a million times easier to attract women in clubs then any other place... for some reason I always get into some state of mind when im in clubs:P

anyways, thanx for all the advice guys, I appreciate it very much!=)

Peace