Goals

[A.J.]

alright well since theres alot of new guys from the VH1 craze now im guessing alot want to get better fast. as in the show, they asked what do you want out of this new lifestyle your about to build. and since you cant build a lifestyle without knowing what you want i figured id give everyone a little push and ask what do you want out of this? do you want to just get laid or do you want to become a mPUA ? think about it and post what you want, it will help your overall game once you start thinking about it and have reason to push for more. also think about how you will have to achieve this goal

ill go first

what do in want out of this? well for a long time ive grappled with what i want to do later in life (im still VERY young....compared to you old guys :P) and even though im studying to go into engineering i have a passion to teach and help others (strange since im actually borderline evil) so my goal out of all this is to aquire the skillset to eventually teach workshops and help guys around the world. belive it or not i dont care if im living like a rockstar and having sex with new girls every night. i just have a desire to teach in social dynamics and be able to see guys get results.

to accomplish this i will obv have to attain a greater skillset (although im decent right now im still wanting to be flawless) which is quite possible, i believe with my current skillset and through the rate i progress, i should attain 545 (look it up if you dont know what it means) by my early 20's (id attain it by age 18 but my area isnt as target rich as i wish it could be)

so there now you know my goals think up what you want from this, be honest and you will figure out the best way to attain it (if you dont know how then ask and we will give you advice)

[A.J.]

oh and just an fyi i love my random girls, but they arent my life and they dont define what my goals are (i said before i dont care if screw new girls every night :P, i love it but its not a necessity)

[Pipedreamz]

I think I remember that you're still in highschool from one of ur previous posts so yeah I would say that ur a young guy! I think its important for you to keep in mind that ur grades are more important than sarging especially in gr 12 and not to get distracted.

I know some guys who got laid like crazy in highschool and probably still do but they are broke as f*ck and going no where. Now enough of the lecturing, I feel like ur dad.

I think what I want to get outta this is to eventually be able to pick up almost any girl in almost any situation with a good success rate. But more importantly I want to be able to date around and find a girl who is actually SPECIAL and deserves a LTR.

[Zenos]

As for myself. Several things that combine inner game and field skills:

inner game-
Learn the guitar. I love rock and metal.
More current events knowledge and history. Giving me a broader range of topics to discuss

Field skills-
I can #-close easy.
Mostly solid game Kino escalation. I Hit and miss on Kino escalating.
Better openers, more original and congruent to my personality.
Leader of Men qualities. and Better group dynamics.

and lastly, landing an HB10 for an LTR that I can put up with for more than 3 weeks. lol

[Messiah]

The one thing I want out of creating this new lifestyle, is to actually have a new lifestyle where I'm never bored. When a friend is forced to work over-time and the plans are ruined I want to be able to go out and pick up more friends and have things to do at any point. I want such a big social circle that I can find something to do at any point of the day. I want to improve my social skills, and I want to become the fun guy at every gathering that the guys want to be friends with and the girls want to be with.

Finally, I don't just want 'any girl,' I want to use this to find THE girl. A girl who can impress me with her brains and her beauty, however this won't mean I won't have some fun with 'any girl.' :) I'm a pretty simple guy, and I don't ask much for out of life but I want to be able to ask anything I want and be able to get it. Which was my main reason to get into this community.

[A.J.]

I think I remember that you're still in highschool from one of ur previous posts so yeah I would say that ur a young guy! I think its important for you to keep in mind that ur grades are more important than sarging especially in gr 12 and not to get distracted.

I know some guys who got laid like crazy in highschool and probably still do but they are broke as f*ck and going no where. Now enough of the lecturing, I feel like ur dad.


lol no worries man, im staying on track

[Alfie000]

Well, I came across the community when I read an article in a European mag about Style's then unpublished book, "The Game". The magazine had an excerpt from the book. It was the first time I was introduced to Mystery and his method for attracting women. I knew some of these things before but never quite grasped the science behind it.
I bought a copy of The Game when it first came out and read it cover to cover. I finally understood things in my personal life and how I had managed to undermine attraction in some of my previous relationships.
I like the company of women. I enjoy them and I came in to learn how I could attract and keep women. I've had a lot of success and sometimes write about things I've learned in the field.
I worked at a radio station in the midwest and we had a nice house with a heated pool and hot tub. I worked with the night show and we got paid to do club event 6 nights a week so I was out in the field practicing and honing my skills. I also had a suit day job where I had a lot of female traffic and so i got a chance to practice day game as well.
Ultimately it's about finding a person that I can live the rest of my life with. Will it be now or ten years from now, I don't know. I do know that thanks largely to Mystery, Style and even Tyler Durden, I've learned the skill set necessary to attract and keep women.
I know that I can add something to the world of any woman I'm involved with and I know that she'll have a good time with me and that's thanks largely to the game and the community.