How should I contact her again

[jy640]

I met a girl at Mirage, a club in Long Island and got a make-out and # close this Saturday. She's a Project Manager in the city and we made def. plans for a day 2 on Tues. at 8. I texted when I left the club and she texted back.

I received a text the next day saying "Good Morning."

The next day we texted back and forth flirting in a competitive type way. I always won.

Tuesday i texted her to confirm plans and she said she was meeting a deadline for marketing for one of her biggest clients or somethin' to that effect. We texted each other for the next hour and a half flirting. I tried to turn the competitive flirting into more comfort building stuff and finally told her I was leaving in an hour to have drinks w/ friends (to sarge, though I didn't tell her that). She said she was just leaving the city then and would probably be asleep before I left b/c she had to leave to the city at 7am.

When should I contact her again (do you think it was a legitimate excuse)?

How should I contact her (text/phone)?

What would be a good strategy to get the day 2 set up again?

[tannhauser]

two words.

CALL HER.

`nuff said

RT esq

[Hawaii]

Agreed. Call her. "Im going down to Mel's diner to grab a bite to eat, you should tag along"

[Sovereign]

and....that's 3 agree's on the call her theory. So there you have it. Stop with the damn texting and dial her number.

[sunn69y]

And when you do call (check out the threads on phone game)even if you forget everything else(I know I did)the one thing to remember is to let the conversation be fun and interesting (make her laugh.)

Also set initially a time constrain (I forgot talked for an hour still fun though)just so you dont end up out of things to talk about or into boredom fluff.

And as I understand it from the moment she picks up the phone you wanna develop and instant rapport like talking to an old friend, so whether you tease her on a prior text message or an instant dhv story or my favorite time distortion (still working on perfecting this myself)

But as I first mentioned when in doubt go for laughter and none of those pre-planned jokes, I find its best when you simply look to turn everything she says into a joke or fun routine and if you hit a sweet spot (something that really gets her busting up)go back to it time and time again and milk it for all its worth, its also an intro for when you next talk but then drop it.

And last of all, make sure your the one to end the conversation, if you can pick a high point all the more better.


ps this worked for me and goes along with game material Ive been reading but as with yourself I'm still learning.

all the best Sunn69y