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Panache
01-24-2007, 06:12 AM
Background info: This girl lives with her bf... All morals aside, I ran into the following:

I'm not cheating.

This is wrong.

How many girls have you slept with, this week?

I don't like you.

I would never have sex with you.

I don't orgasm.

So whats the point.

We have nothing in common.

You me to cheat on my bf, your evil.

I'm not your type.

You just like me for my looks.

I bet you use this exact technique on all the girls..

My personal favorite: "I bet you have been trained in this, its not going to work"

This isn't going to work.

I've seen this before, Panache. I've been on like 200 dates.

I know how to squirm my way out of sex.

You won't get trough.

We have nothing in common.

Thanks guys,

P

sting
01-24-2007, 07:27 AM
"methinks the lady denies a little too strongly" - Shakespeare paraphrased.


Panache,
k, seriously. thats waaay too much information coming from a chick whose not into you at all.
conclusion - she is into you, a lot a lot.

if i'm understanding this properly, the problem isn't LMR right now, its isolating to a place to have sex?
some more details of the where you see this girl, how you get in contact, what kind of relationship you've had with her (cold approach, how long ago etc.) would be helpful to finding a helpful suggestion for dealing with this.
the info you've shared so far only just confirms that she's
- tempted to do the deed with you
- knows its a bad idea and will try to sabatoge it from happening.

more details needed.

Sting

Dynamic
01-24-2007, 07:40 AM
You shouldn't be receiving LMR if you run game properly, it's that simple.

I posted recently on a cool LMR tactic that I used to utulize, it might be helpful to you. It's linked below.

http://masterpickup.blogspot.com/2007/01/lmr-tactic-our-story.html

On the point of engaging her logically, stay away from that. Don't argue with her, occupy her logical mind with "We shouldn't be doing this, it's so bad. And we definitely shouldn't be doing this (escalate)" etc and plow physically.


Good luck,
Dynamic

Cedar
01-24-2007, 07:41 AM
Background info: This girl lives with her bf... All morals aside, I ran into the following:

If you're asking for help....you need to ask. You know. A question. Cause I have no clue what you want from us in this post. Unless you don't want anything. And you're sharing this out of humour. Because this shit is funny as hell.

But if you want our advise, opinions, sarcasm, etc. You need to ask a question. Some more detail wouldn't kill you either ;)


P.S. ALL OF US should be using these lines on girls.

tannhauser
01-24-2007, 07:48 AM
okay,
maybe I am missing something here...but you sound like a stalker. just kidding.not really.

LMR is when you have been making out and are trying to close the deal. I am not sure if that is what is going in the above situation. if a chick says those things to you and is not making out with you....the problem isn't LMR. And either you have made out alot and encountered a lot of LMR (based on the # of statements) or this chick is not in to you.

~RT esq

Panache
01-24-2007, 08:25 AM
Hey guys, appreciate the comments. What I'm looking for are response statments. Yes, I know, if I was running helluva tight game, I wouldn't get LMR. I'm working that, until that point however, I'd like the reframe statements.

I got this last night from a girl who lives with her boyfriend. Cheating with me means possibly not having a place to stay. I expected mega-lmr. We met up at my apartment, went for a walk, grabbed some food, then I escalated back in my apartment.

So for example, usually we verbally agree while simulataneously escalating. So what I'M ASKING FOR is the proper or a specific response to each of the comments I was getting.

Ex: We shouldn't be doing this
PUA: your right, we shouldn't be doing this...

Thanks guys, and look forward to your comments.

PS: Cedar, the question was in the subject line. I was looking for *response statements*. thanks Bro.

Superfreak
01-24-2007, 10:34 AM
You need to be non reactive to it agree with them verbally but proceed to escalate physically. Or freeze them out say your right, get up and go get some drinks beer or soda whatever. Be a little more distant but let them know you enjoy spending time with them that nothing has to happen. Then let it progress anyway.

She wants it to just happen so that it is not her fault, you can not talk them into it.

You can also try the your right maybe you should go because if you stay I am not sure I can control this desire burning in my soul (kiss her off and on the whole time you say this and continue to escalate) The reason is its not her fault anymore as its your desire not hers in action.

She basically just wants to be off the hook for feeling the way she does.

Now this is kinda a gray zone, so push /pull a bit and use good judgment

Absu
05-25-2007, 12:50 PM
reframes:


I'm not cheating. You mean, in poker?

This is wrong. playfully: Yes, it is. Don't allow her to throw herself out of state.

How many girls have you slept with, this week? playfully: Thousands

I don't like you. Yes, there is more than liking there...

I would never have sex with you. Sex? You mean, like the thing cute bunny rabbits do on TV?

I don't orgasm. playfully: Neither do I.

So whats the point. Tell her some jokes

We have nothing in common. tell her: That only makes it better!

You me to cheat on my bf, your evil. cf: We need to find you a Man

I'm not your type. What's my type?:)

You just like me for my looks. playfully: What looks?:)

I bet you use this exact technique on all the girls.. Only when I/you have this shirt on..take it off

My personal favorite: "I bet you have been trained in this, its not going to work"
light-heartedly: What, exactly?

This isn't going to work. No work Just play.

I've seen this before, Panache. I've been on like 200 dates. I've been to 500 and...tell DHV story

I know how to squirm my way out of sex. Out of what?:)

You won't get trough. But you will... then use some prizablity routines

oops, first post was in January. any news?:)