Saul
08-21-2010, 10:59 AM
This is a pattern I wrote and am going to use (roughly as you can't memorize all this shit...) and I was wondering if people could take a look and critique it.
It's a little on the heavey side at the moment but it's a work in progress.
You know I have to ask. If you were to imagine your ideal date with a person what would it be like? What kind of feelings would you like to feel and what kinds of things would you like to do with this person you’re thinking about. I mean the kind of date where you know you’re going to compare this ideal in your mind to every date you will ever go on and see if it matches up to just how good you can imagine this date would be. I remember you talked about when you have that feeling in your heart, like a wave of heat flowing through your body when you’re thinking about this person that you’re really attracted to. I think it’s important to really picture that ideal date in your mind. With me when I think about what my ideal date would be, there would have to be this sense that you really want to be with this person. That having this person around you can make everything so much more fun. And that you just have to get close to them and really enjoy that sense of attraction and just the way you feel when you can just let yourself go to flirt around this person.
As you sit here with me and you think about it long and hard I don’t know if you can imagine this date, but I think when you do that it can really give you a clear picture of being on a date with a person that you can use to compare these feelings to any other date you might go on which means you can really find this person is for you.
When I think about the ideal date with me it’s all about how you would feel in this situation. I want a date where you just feel so excited even thinking about it. You have this sense of anticipation looking forward to it because when you think about this person it just makes you feel so good inside. From that place where you can experience all kinds of pleasure and enjoyment as you picture this person in your mind. And it’s not necessarily what we’re doing when we’re on a date, like the kinds of places you would like to go with this person, or the kinds of events you would like to experience together, even though that’s a big part. It’s more about the fun that you can experience with this person and the way you can just allow yourself to indulge in this sense that you want to be with this person, like you feel intrigued just thinking about them. I think it’s important that you admire this person too, for who they are which means you can really become fascinated and enthralled by whatever it is they’re talking about.
When I go on a date I want the woman I’m with to just enjoy the experience so much. Where you can just feel how much each other are enjoying it which means you can feel even better about it. I want it to be the kind of experience where you can imagine it being one of those amazing moments you will look back on for the rest of your life as one of those times that you will treasure for the rest of your life.
Cheers for any help
Saul
It's a little on the heavey side at the moment but it's a work in progress.
You know I have to ask. If you were to imagine your ideal date with a person what would it be like? What kind of feelings would you like to feel and what kinds of things would you like to do with this person you’re thinking about. I mean the kind of date where you know you’re going to compare this ideal in your mind to every date you will ever go on and see if it matches up to just how good you can imagine this date would be. I remember you talked about when you have that feeling in your heart, like a wave of heat flowing through your body when you’re thinking about this person that you’re really attracted to. I think it’s important to really picture that ideal date in your mind. With me when I think about what my ideal date would be, there would have to be this sense that you really want to be with this person. That having this person around you can make everything so much more fun. And that you just have to get close to them and really enjoy that sense of attraction and just the way you feel when you can just let yourself go to flirt around this person.
As you sit here with me and you think about it long and hard I don’t know if you can imagine this date, but I think when you do that it can really give you a clear picture of being on a date with a person that you can use to compare these feelings to any other date you might go on which means you can really find this person is for you.
When I think about the ideal date with me it’s all about how you would feel in this situation. I want a date where you just feel so excited even thinking about it. You have this sense of anticipation looking forward to it because when you think about this person it just makes you feel so good inside. From that place where you can experience all kinds of pleasure and enjoyment as you picture this person in your mind. And it’s not necessarily what we’re doing when we’re on a date, like the kinds of places you would like to go with this person, or the kinds of events you would like to experience together, even though that’s a big part. It’s more about the fun that you can experience with this person and the way you can just allow yourself to indulge in this sense that you want to be with this person, like you feel intrigued just thinking about them. I think it’s important that you admire this person too, for who they are which means you can really become fascinated and enthralled by whatever it is they’re talking about.
When I go on a date I want the woman I’m with to just enjoy the experience so much. Where you can just feel how much each other are enjoying it which means you can feel even better about it. I want it to be the kind of experience where you can imagine it being one of those amazing moments you will look back on for the rest of your life as one of those times that you will treasure for the rest of your life.
Cheers for any help
Saul