Transitioning into rapport after you've known her

[johnnybgood]

When your with a girl you've known for a long time and your with her one night and you get her attracted to you, what are some good ways to transition into rapport with a chick you've already known for months?

[xenos]

If you know her for months then you probably shouldn't be trying to pick her up. The PUA methods work a lot by manipulating relative social status/value when you meet her. Going after a girl who has LJBFed you isn't the best idea.

If you *need* her, then I suggest going straight to flirting then kino escalation. You know her for months, rapport should be there.

[Ambisire]

Rapport is trust and comfort. You already have that with friends. Attraction is the lacking part. PUA tactics will not work.

The real PUA life is one where you live from girl to girl, and they are your "friends" but it is established from the beginning that there is potential for physical relations.

I don't really have an answer for this cause usually when you're in the LJBF zone, it's hard to get out. Would help if she saw you in a different light but I figured out that getting out the LJBF zone is extremely hard. You need to distance yourself a little first (if you're seeing her every day) to the point where she says "I haven't seen you in a while!!!" and gets excited at your presence. It helps to reveal that you are sought after my girls because the female's search for survival and replication (preselection by women blah blah) all still holds. Good luck to you.

[A.J.]

the only difference between a friend and a lover is the lack of attraction and kino escelation. if you think you have attraction and kino escelate it should workout, the problem is that since your in the friend zone, the feelings of attraction are commonly disregarded as "oh hes only my friend"