Godhand
01-23-2007, 02:42 PM
I've revamped my PeopleMeet.com dating profile several times since I last posted it on the MM forum. I got rid of the banal content and wittled most of the unnecessary datails out of it. I also took out alot of the negative shit (disqualifyers, tough standards, etc). I've been getting a lot more messages now. I recently tried to up the ante by adding a mild amount of NLP patterns to the mix. The only problem is that I am stumped when it comes to the opener. I want to use some NLP in the opener, but I don't want to lead off with a question. Most weasle phrases that I've memorized are question form. I want to lead with a statement that uses a non-question weasle phrase and a trance word or two, that doesn't seem wierd. Any advice would be appreciated. Below is my profile text:
A little about me...
I'm a single, educated, and successful male of Liberian and Madagascan heritage that enjoys living and experiencing life. Rather than bore you with the typical paragraph of postitive qualities that most guys on here list, I'll let you get to know me as we conversate. Don't be shy. At the very least, we can be friends. *LOL*
What are you looking for in a partner?
Women who are smart, honest, and know how to have a good time. I'm looking for an emotionally mature woman that can be a good friend first, then a girlfriend second. I want to make sure that I'm attracted to your personality and not just your physical appearance. I'm always open to new friends, but I'm selective about who I get into committed relationships with.
I'd just like to add...
When you contact me, allow yourself to relax and be your true fun-loving self. You will come to find that I'm easy to talk to. Due to the huge amount of messages in my inbox, I do require a picture and a description on your page unless you are seeking a pen pal or email me a description and/or picture. When I selected "Looking for a casual relationship" it was only because I was limited to one choice. I'm open to the possibility of all of the selectable options (from pen pals to a serious relationship), depending on the level of connection.
A little about me...
I'm a single, educated, and successful male of Liberian and Madagascan heritage that enjoys living and experiencing life. Rather than bore you with the typical paragraph of postitive qualities that most guys on here list, I'll let you get to know me as we conversate. Don't be shy. At the very least, we can be friends. *LOL*
What are you looking for in a partner?
Women who are smart, honest, and know how to have a good time. I'm looking for an emotionally mature woman that can be a good friend first, then a girlfriend second. I want to make sure that I'm attracted to your personality and not just your physical appearance. I'm always open to new friends, but I'm selective about who I get into committed relationships with.
I'd just like to add...
When you contact me, allow yourself to relax and be your true fun-loving self. You will come to find that I'm easy to talk to. Due to the huge amount of messages in my inbox, I do require a picture and a description on your page unless you are seeking a pen pal or email me a description and/or picture. When I selected "Looking for a casual relationship" it was only because I was limited to one choice. I'm open to the possibility of all of the selectable options (from pen pals to a serious relationship), depending on the level of connection.