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Sloan
08-22-2007, 09:22 PM
I'm new to the game. I am starting up school (college) again soon for the fall semester. I have only been sarging a few times since I got into the game, and they have all been in a bar/party atmosphere, and I feel like I'm learning a lot. Anyway:
What I want to know is, what would be some good openers for a classroom atmosphere? My inner AFC is telling me not to open anyone because if I come on too strong and she gets creeped out, then she still sees me two days a week for three months and things are akward, much unlike a bar where you probably will never see the person again. What do you reccommend? Should I avoid classmates for this reason?
Tsudo
08-22-2007, 09:30 PM
I too, have been wondering this exact thing. Namely the last part about her having to put up with me for the next few months if I fail. I know the idea is not to really care because the pleasure is hers for you to talk to her. But I can't shake the idea that I'd just come off as abrasive.
Also, I'm not sure how many of you are currently still in school, but let's say for example, that the class if over and you want to approach an HB. However said girl is taking way too much time putting stuff away in her back-pack and cleaning up, etc. When would be the best time to approach? While she's preoccupied with putting stuff away? Or waiting for her outside the classroom, or what?
I'm in the middle of reading The Game, as well as nearly finished with the MM.
As I said on another thread, I'm new to the arts of seduction; although my friends say I have the natural ability. I just have not really been confident enough to approach. Stupid AA. Lots of questions, I'm trying to learn so please be patient, we all started off the same way, I presume.
$pike
08-23-2007, 08:00 PM
agreed...same situation here. There's like 4 targets in my first class tomorrow and at least 5 in the student center that i've seen. any insight would be great.
The Infamous $pike
DateDemon
08-23-2007, 08:21 PM
These are great questions, I have a site DateDemon.com (http://www.datedemon.com) that gives a lot of advice you could use in the college atmosphere. I would read the post I did about peacocking. Also you know all those articles that say walk into a bar and have confidence and that girls notice you right when you walk in?? Same thing goes for everywhere. You need to walk into class like you own the place take a comfortable seat near a hot girl or something. If you are really good at the subject answer questions and joke about how if she is nice you might tutor her (always good). I am pretty good at drawing so for the boring classes in between taking notes I would draw sketches and make it obviously visible to nearby hot girls and they would often comment like thats really cool and it would start a conversation that way. Tons of tips I don't even want to type them all lol but that should get your creative juices flowing. Also get on social networking sites if you are not on facebook myspace your an idiot. If you see a hot girl in class doing something neg her online. Hey I think you are in my economics class? Were you the one with like a billion notecards before our last test?" Then make a joke when she replies like oh I thought you were insane at first with all of those notecards did you have to have a friend help you carry them all to class?
fishbulb
08-23-2007, 08:27 PM
Opening will be easy... you have so many opportunities for situational stuff...
In lectures at uni you can just talk to the people next you and build from there. Create a group for yourself that is recognisable as a cool, fun bunch of guys AND chicks.
Best thing in class is loads of playful banter and cold reading. Shit like "I can tell we're never gonna get along"... "you're WAAY too much of a dork for me" or "You're SO demanding woman"..."Do you want a fight? I'll have you on the floor in 30 seconds little girl" and start doing insult escalation as soon as possible. The best kind of social proof is having a playful slanging match across the lecture theatre.
At work tonight a guy was doing this brilliantly with our hot boss. They'd been escalating insults all night and eventually it culminated in this: she walks in on a group of us talking and asks what we are talking about. He immediately says at the top of his voice "I was just telling everyone what a BITCH you are..." everyone cracks up and then he adds "and I was touching myself a little bit at the same time" with perfect delivery. Classic. But you can't just dive in to this.. you have to build it up gradually as I'm sure you know.:)
I am not an expert in this but i do have some success in college. I just want to share something that works for me.
Peacocking
Yes, you do need to peacock in school. Some guys say that you should leave the school alone and just wear normal stuff. Dont do this, peacocking isnt about wearing weird things. Its about wearing something that make you stand out in a sexual way. I recommend you peacock abit when u go to school. A little cool necklace, bracelet won't hurt u that much.
In class sarging
i dont think its a good idea to sarge when you are in the class. If i am in my class, i just listen to the professor, take note and do good on the tests. That will automatically turn me into the alpha man in class. HBs will try to get to study with you. Doing good in class also shows everyone that i'll success in the future. Dont turn into a guy who games every HBs in your class and then fail the class. U'll regret it. I'll say no for in-class sarging.
Out class (in the hallway, library)
This is where i sarge. First of all, watch their body language. If a HB plays with her hair, look around, checking her stupid myspace or facebook... She is approachable. Second of all, dont try to look for a date with her immediately unless you get a lot of IOIs. Because you are gonna see her again somewhere in the campus. She ain't going anywhere. After you build enough comfort. You can go on a date.
P.S.: my english is bad. I know.
im in highschool and this is how i game the class. firstly you need to be in the CF state all the time so you can joke easily with everyone including the teacher (easier to do in highschool then college). you need to become the fun cocky guy that everyine likes (NOT CLASS CLOWN)
if your worried about screwing up forget about it, its harder to screw up then start a conversation. make sure your already the fun loving guy and NOTHING will fail (ive tried some random crap....)
everything will fall into play once you become the fun cocky guy that everyone knows and loves. just be THE social guy who makes everyone laugh and cheer up and ur golden
Anestis
08-24-2007, 02:26 PM
aj is right, but also there are many other ways of approching in class...
like wizi said, GET GOOD GRADES, and small talk with people in the halls and cafeteria, thts where u want to be cocky funny, and peacocking is important in
school just as clubs, try to wear some relaxed but tight pants!
Levis have a lot of nice tight pants, and they are comftable(my english sucks).
also wht works for me is wearing a t-shirt wich is not to tight but slightly and dosent hang faaar down too youre legs... The t-shirt should stop at your waist, like 2-3 cm away from showing skin... tht way everytime u bend to get something and u have a nice ass girls WILL notice....
Girls look at guys ass just as we look at theirs, and nothings better then a girl with tight pants and a nice ass... think like them;)
peace
ya just following up on the get good grades idea, most of the time i see guys who suck at school and who are amazing with girls. they are cocky and tease them alot which builds attraction. now this WILL work to get girls (it happens to be automatic that when you get destracted with dates and your marks drop kinda thing)
but this is overall a shitty plan. even better is to get good grades WITHOUT showing your overly try hard. the difference between getting the girls and friends and being a loser is how you carry yourself. if you study everynight fine but you had better have a great social life as well. youd better be fun and joking in class and make ppl love you.
if you do that no one will care if you have 90's (in fact this will help ALOT when gaming smart girls) however, if getting good grades is all you do then you will fail horribly, and if your not cocky and playful to the straight A hb then no matter how much you have in common with her, she will 99.9% go for the retard who gets drunk/ stoned every night but can make her smile and feel attracted
remember the point of school is to get good grades and learn social skills for once your out, its all about S&R. survival is your grades and getting a good job to be able to survive after highschool. replication (and social skills) is being fun and cocky and getting the girl.
thailegacy
08-24-2007, 06:20 PM
i was never the smartest... u should never be like the geek of the class.... just be fun, joke with the teacher, make everyone laugh... get into all the discussions, be kinnda like the class main guy. Seek help from others is a good thing.... if u are the smartest dont show it be kinnda oblivious, u dont wannna be the smartest nerd in the class, u wanna be the cool guy who makes the class laugh... (specially the girls), this will make approach to all the chicks in the class easier, since you will be kinna confort building wit the whole class.... be friendly and poke and neg the hot chicks!!.... push girls around then let go, i did all this and i hanged out wit every girl in the class.... once u get rolling and dating girls in school it will open up more girls... just follow the m3 stuff on any girl u want...
highskool is the best for picking up chicks and fuking them is easy.....
just dont portrait that ur the smartest guy.... be particullary smart in the down low u DONT wanna come along like a NERD.....ask for help a lot and meanwhile start ur M3....
im telling u man this works great im horrible at explaining things in the internet my writing skills r baaadd... so i might come across i lil diff then i intended.. but we...
fishbulb
08-24-2007, 06:25 PM
i was never the smartest...
yeah, I can tell.
Just busting your balls mate, I didn't read any of your post beyond the first line. It was probably great. I just like being mean.
That will be all.
Carry on.
Abower The Don
08-24-2007, 07:04 PM
You hyper-active attention deficit disorder deranged manchild, you.
thailegacy
08-24-2007, 07:06 PM
yeah, I can tell.
Just busting your balls mate, I didn't read any of your post beyond the first line. It was probably great. I just like being mean.
That will be all.
Carry on.
yeah watever i meant in the like geek way.....
u dont have to be the smartest guy wit the top grades to pick up woman man trust me...skool grades got nothing to do with the game
Anestis
08-24-2007, 07:32 PM
yeah dude, BUT LIFE DOES!!!
Im a straight A student who has 3 diff girls i fuck a week! I just moved to the states and lost all three of them, but hell, getting good grades and being able to have a social life at the side is worth A LOT!!!
I get drunk and high as everybody else! I just study for the fucking test two weeks before were supposed to have them, it takes u 2 hours a day of youre precious time and after tht u got all day to call chicks, fuck chicks, go get high with friends and so on... youre parents will love u and so will the girls;)
Been doing this for 6 years now, nothing is better then having school and social life accomplished! But I SUCK when it comes to hitting on girls in school, I usually just let them know about some party and hope they come there.... thts my tactic:P haha
well, clubs are a diff story, but hell DOES ANYONE have good routines in school like things tht are field tested?
Peace
thailegacy
08-24-2007, 07:39 PM
yeah dude, BUT LIFE DOES!!!
Im a straight A student who has 3 diff girls i fuck a week! I just moved to the states and lost all three of them, but hell, getting good grades and being able to have a social life at the side is worth A LOT!!!
I get drunk and high as everybody else! I just study for the fucking test two weeks before were supposed to have them, it takes u 2 hours a day of youre precious time and after tht u got all day to call chicks, fuck chicks, go get high with friends and so on... youre parents will love u and so will the girls;)
Been doing this for 6 years now, nothing is better then having school and social life accomplished! But I SUCK when it comes to hitting on girls in school, I usually just let them know about some party and hope they come there.... thts my tactic:P haha
well, clubs are a diff story, but hell DOES ANYONE have good routines in school like things tht are field tested?
Peace
yeah i get it man but not everyone is an grade a student rite???
the more the merrier... if you are supersmart aslong as u show it in an interesting way it will add to ur game....
but not being a straight A student dosent mean u will not get laid dats all i am saying..
peace bro
$pike
08-24-2007, 08:07 PM
The cocky funny can work wonders when coupled with acually knowing stuff, as I found out today. For more about how it went, just read my FR ^_^
Anestis
08-26-2007, 09:07 PM
Ok, so this is wht I got so far to sum things up:
HOW TO GET GIRLS IN SCHOOL:
1. Grades dont matter, but if u have good grades then it might add to youre game depending on how u carry yourself.
2. Cocky funny!
3. Peacocking, yes also in school, but at a moderate level.
4. Dont try to hard, givse u DLV all the way.
5 Any1?
xenos
08-26-2007, 09:37 PM
Well my school starts tomorrow so I'm going to save sarging for out of class, and not till the mid/end of the week.
For now I'll sit near HBs and use C&F after playful opens.
Well my school starts tomorrow so I'm going to save sarging for out of class, and not till the mid/end of the week.
For now I'll sit near HBs and use C&F after playful opens.
lol i think the point weve been trying to make is that the CF banter IS the best way to sarge a girl in class :P and dont wait man, get yourself the image of the CF guy of the class who flirts with all the girls and jokes with everyone FROM DAY 1, the longer you wait the harder it is to shift into it, if suddenly one day you just start joking around and flirting ppl will be like ":S wtf where is this new guy comin from...." ive had it happen, you may get away with it but why not just play it safe and go from the start?
xenos
08-27-2007, 06:44 AM
To be honest, I am an engineer, so I only have 1 gen ed class (read: 1 class with attractive women) this semester. I'll take your advice tomorrow, when I have that class for the first time.
Thanks A.J.
np man tell me how it goes and ill be glad to help
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