WereWatching
05-22-2010, 12:17 PM
Have you ever been caught up in a hug that you held on for just a second to long? Or let go just a little soon? This can be awkward at times, but if you keep control of the situation it could be beneficial. I've been thinking and there are a few ways you could incorporate a mistimed hug into your game.
Post the hug being initiated, let go rather quickly. If executed right the target should still be holding on to you. From this point you can either decide to neg target, or use it to show an IOI.
A) Negging the Target. You need to be careful here, you don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. Whenever tossing a neg always throw it jokingly and with a smile.
PUA: If you hold on for any longer, I am gonna have to start a tab. [While backing up from the hug, show a smile on your face while you look into the eyes of the target. This should help reassure her that your are truly joking.]
B) Showing an IOI. At this point, the target is still locked into the hug, and you are not. You need to take note of this and allow the target to know that you took note of it This can be as simple as saying "oh".
PUA: Was that not 3 seconds? [This is said while you are moving your hands back into the "Hug Position". This shows that you aren't subjected to wanting to hug her, but that you do enjoy it. This helps you come across as not needy.]
These are just my thoughts on early release hugs. This has not been field tested, and I am still rather new to the game. Some feedback would be nice, as I plan on posting a lot more.
Post the hug being initiated, let go rather quickly. If executed right the target should still be holding on to you. From this point you can either decide to neg target, or use it to show an IOI.
A) Negging the Target. You need to be careful here, you don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. Whenever tossing a neg always throw it jokingly and with a smile.
PUA: If you hold on for any longer, I am gonna have to start a tab. [While backing up from the hug, show a smile on your face while you look into the eyes of the target. This should help reassure her that your are truly joking.]
B) Showing an IOI. At this point, the target is still locked into the hug, and you are not. You need to take note of this and allow the target to know that you took note of it This can be as simple as saying "oh".
PUA: Was that not 3 seconds? [This is said while you are moving your hands back into the "Hug Position". This shows that you aren't subjected to wanting to hug her, but that you do enjoy it. This helps you come across as not needy.]
These are just my thoughts on early release hugs. This has not been field tested, and I am still rather new to the game. Some feedback would be nice, as I plan on posting a lot more.