Some attraction questions.

[Yoda]

I understand negging the target, active disinterest, and I have a basic understanding of group theory, but after you have created attraction, my question is, how should the target respond to you?

How will an attracted HB act when she thinks your not looking? Will she peek at you when she thinks your not looking in her direction? Will she exhibit some of the signs guys exhibit when they're interested? What are the most overt IOI's?

Will the target continue to give you IOI's and at which point does she begin to lose interest because you haven't begun to show Male to female attraction?

I've just been thinking, wouldn't it be most effective if you held off Male to Female attraction until right before the point where she would begin to lose interest? So that you could stretch out her feeling of uncertainty, giving you more momentum.

[Cedar]

I've just been thinking, wouldn't it be most effective if you held off Male to Female attraction until right before the point where she would begin to lose interest? So that you could stretch out her feeling of uncertainty, giving you more momentum.

Stop strategizing. Get in field and try it out.

[RobLaughter]

If you stay in A2 for too long, she's going to think that YOU are uninterested.

Most of your "momentum" should be coming from rapidly moving through the first four steps of the M3 model--ideally, you should be into comfort within the first 5 to 10 minutes after opening without pumping her buying temperature too high.

Apart from that, get out of your head and into the field. It's a calibration issue, and there's no way to really TEACH calibration.

[Masters]

I understand negging the target, active disinterest, and I have a basic understanding of group theory, but after you have created attraction, my question is, how should the target respond to you?

How will an attracted HB act when she thinks your not looking? Will she peek at you when she thinks your not looking in her direction? Will she exhibit some of the signs guys exhibit when they're interested? What are the most overt IOI's?
-Playing with hair
-Touching You
-Body language shifts in your favor like crossing legs towards you, opening up to you, standing closer to you.
-Her staring from one eye to the other then to your lips and back.
-Her picking up conversation when you drop the thread and raising her voice slightly to show interest or excitement.
-Her Blushing
-Her QUALIFYING


Will the target continue to give you IOI's and at which point does she begin to lose interest because you haven't begun to show Male to female attraction?
She'll lose interest when you don't escelate based on the IOI's she gives or if you allow the thread to draw out.

I've just been thinking, wouldn't it be most effective if you held off Male to Female attraction until right before the point where she would begin to lose interest? So that you could stretch out her feeling of uncertainty, giving you more momentum.
If this works for you then sure, but I haven't had success delaying attraction.. in fact I've had my worse results when I don't work on attraction early on. Showing value and building attraction is what keeps me in the set and allows me to escalate. Without those my looks aren't quite enough to keep the girl there following my words from a cold approach. :D

[crypticfox]

This Female to Male interest thing is a lot like a nibble on your fishing line, I'm finding. It only last a few seconds, and you have to jerk the line at just the right moment to set the hook.

Last night for example... with this HB8 BigLips. I went from nothing to full blown IOIs back down to nothing in probably 3 minutes. I didn't set the hook at the right moment (primarily cause I was there to drink, not game) and before I knew it she was off on some other guy.

The bottom line... you have to be quick.

[Yoda]

I've been field testing holding off showing Male to female interest, but i never know when is the breaking point. When I got it right though, it gives me a nice boost.

How hard is it to rebuild attraction if she loses interest (due to lack of male to female interest)?