im a 50/50 choice?

[A.J.]

alright respond quick to this one guys cause it moves into effect this Thursday.

the long distance girl who likes me was picked up by another guy a lil while ago. I knew it was coming since we can only see each other once in a while and shes a hb 9.5 so it was obvious a guy with enough skill would eventually break thru. now heres the problem, weve already slept together and everything but shes now saying she doesn’t want anything sexual to happen this weekend because she wants to make a choice first, me or the other guy. now already I hate this because 1) it means shes in control and the prize who me and the guy are trying to win over 2) means im prolly not getting laid this weekend :(

will normal game and closes still work if she has the mindset she wont hurt the other guy ? basically im asking is there anyway I can get her to be so into me that she will just say fu*k it and get into it?

her idea is that we shouldn’t be doing anything that I wouldn’t want her and the other guy to do. and if I make out with her and that’s as far as we take it then she will get to say "oh well I made out with him so it must be ok if I make out with the other guy" and same with sex, anything I can do to say so that I don’t seem like a hypocrite?

[Smurk]

i dont know,but its basic cats string theory, say

'ill just let you two be, i know we've had our ups and our downs, but it seems to me like setting you free would be best,maybe we can be friends'

idk honestly, that's a tough one. Orleans? Rewok? Lovedrop?

[A.J.]

alright ya i already thought of that, unless i get some better advice i think ill just build comfort and have a good time with her till the night before i leave, then tell her something along those lines. ill risk loosing her but oh well, to get the girl you have to risk loosing her...

[Unique_pua]

uhhmm.. I would'nt go with to much comfort, in case it may seem like to needy.

I don't know the vibe you guys have going between you, but I've experienced something similar before, and I did some serious jealousy plot with her. Worked like a charm

Unique

[stolen crown]

While I am sure she is a nice girl and all speaking from expierence long distance is always an issue...plus she is power playing you, which personally I cannot stand. Remember to keep the girl you must be willing to lose the girl so don't cut her free at the end of the time you are spending together cut her off before hand that way the whole time she is with you she will be thinking about one thing, winning you back. If you want to boost the pressure so you can get a little out of the time she is there take her to some clubs flirt with some other women, she will disregard her own rules about not sleeping with you very quickly if you play your cards right.

[A.J.]

i like the idea of the jealousy plotline and i think i can make it work well. the girls who live across from her are aparently "snobby slutty whores" which i think translates to "they are hot and have alot of guys in their lives" so i think that even talking to them will create jealousy

alright, so heres the updated plan, i get there, be charming to win over her family (i already have the one brother loving me and once i have the other ill be in a good place), CF to her to boost attraction, that night we do something non threatening like cuddle to a movie and at the end of that i give her the talk saying

"i dont want to be fighting with this other guy over you, its not fair for him or me, thats why i want you and him to be happy, we both screwed up and no matter how much we want this to work it never will with this other guy, lets just keep it as friends. *kiss forehead*

(i added in the idea of kissing forehead because she will be very very close to me by then and i can pull it off, also because by moving in she will think im going for the lips and will feel a slight desire to kiss me on the lips after i reject that)

[A.J.]

oh and i should mention that ill be doing this the thursday night, and ill be there untill monday evening so hopefully thats enough time

[stolen crown]

Sounds like a respectable plan AJ check back in once this is all completed and tell us how it worked out!

[Kaitia]

Women have way too active imaginations right. They are always thinking and you can do something that will drive her crazy.

Tell her it is good that you can't be together because you have some newfound information on sex that she could not handle. Not sure of the time frame since you have been with her last, but tell her that you are hesitant to share that you have become a Freak.

She will imediately want to know more. This is when you cat string and say we are not that way anymore and maybe sometime in the future you will share the info. Then leave it be. Do not elaborate.

This will fester in her brain and she will want you to tell her more. play coy do not give in till you fill flirting may help. Just reiterate to her that she could not handle the new you. Do not smile state as a fact.

See how this goes through the night. She will probably be very into you especially if you flirt with another person.

If you do have sex with her then be creative. Go buy some toys. Make her come about ten times and she will remember you then. Crush her skull with all the pounding and make her understand what being a Freak is all about.

If she still wants you to elaborate then tell her it never leaves your head. You want sex all the time and four times on Sundays. You are into giving pleasure and the limits are unknown. Only tell her this after you layed her hard for a few hours.

If you do not set yourself apart in the bedroom then you failed to capture her.

[A.J.]

lol i love all these ideas guys, and ya ive already set myself apart from the guys in the past. even during sex when i do something like rub her clit while shes on top she will be like *amazing face* fuck (real name) you know too much! (im young and prolly better then 90% of the guys my age...i wana be better tho :P) but aside from that, it wont work to say ya ive just learned how to make you cum for an hour straight (my current project :P) because shes not that into sex, she has it and enjoys it but i havent been able to unlock the demon girl inside her yet :P oh and ya its been like 3 weeks since ive seen her last, we talk daily tho and chat over webcam.

[A.J.]

alright so heres what happened, my hb kept going down and down in the past few days, she wasnt the girl i loved (ya ya ya...) basically what happened is we talked about the whole situation and i realized that it wasnt going to work. heres the last part of the convo.

hb "i dont want to be with you A.J."

me "i know this isnt working out, were too similar for a relationship to work, no matter how amazing it can feel to be with each other the relationships never going to workout. lets just be friends."

hb "alright that works"

then we quickly discussed that wed still come see each other and such

this is the end i guess, i know that by staying friends theres a possibility of fb's in the future but i dont actually care, ill post anouther thread of what i got from this relationship thanks for the help guys