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0rion
04-16-2010, 09:56 PM
Have any of you PUA's ever tried the top of the hands kiss after you meet a woman? When done right (slowly and respectfully) on the name exchange; she holds out her hand for the standard shake, but gently lift up her hand and give it a slight DRY kiss to the back of the hand / top of the wrist area. And then hold on to the hand come up from the kiss making eye contact and then lower the hand and let go. Saw this in a older movie (like this greeting was big around the 1850s)

I have been doing it calibrating a bit here and there but OMG when done right its almost like you side step the A's and go right into C1. For a group what I do politely make the acquaintance of the obstacles with "I pleasure to meet you" shake the hand and hold it a bit longer make direct eye contact on the left eye, and when I get to the target I do the hand kiss. I'm still in awe of how many points this scores with the target and the group right off the bat!

As always name it claim it make it yours let me know what kind of results you get with this gambit gentlemen, good hunting!

Quest84
04-16-2010, 11:12 PM
sounds cheezy, but worth a shot! Ima try it out. in the begining did you get like the 'no he didnt just do that' look?
do you do it with only certain type of girl or with all girls?
and yeah, i do the extended hand holding too, pretty awsome. but i stare into the right eye, i think i read in the game that it is called 'soul gazing'? it seems to work well. i'm sure it doesnt matter what eye you stare into as long as you pick just one casue you can give that i want to fuck gaze :)
thanks for the tip!
Happy Gaming!

0rion
04-18-2010, 01:24 AM
"Sounds cheesy" <= just remember that the things that seem lame /gay / cheesy to us = big results in the sarge. My favorite type of food is Asian food. If I were to go fishing; and I wanted to catch fish I wouldn't bait my hook with egg rolls. I would bait the hook with what is appealing and tasty to the fish IE worms or some other kind of bait.

"Do you do it with only certain type of girl or with all girls?"Great question! All women want to be romanced BUT there are certain times that they will have their guard up and this approach WILL NOT work. Utilitarian haired guns (waitress, bar Maids, women in retail) have to very conscious of how they treat the clients and who will see that from a far. So it’s not so much you but it’s how the other people they work with will view this gambit. Sensual Hired guns (Stripes, Dancers, Models) it’s a green light go for it! Now what about your standard run of the mill HB that you encounter in say….the mall (day) / dance club (night) alone or with a group I have found that if you make disarm with the obstacles and then go for the hand kiss on the target it works very well. Its overt but they KNOW what your about. For some guys this direct approach this early in the sarge might seem over whelming if you don't have the gambits installed tested in field to control her state till close so if you a bit new to the pick up arts you might want to hold on to this gambit till you have more in field experience.

"I’m sure it doesn’t matter what eye you stare into as long as you pick just one" <= Right; this wouldn't make or break the sarge. If you can score extra point why not do it? The reason I look directly into the LEFT eye is that it simulates the RIGHT side of the brain where she (and all humans) keep their emotional brain. We have all heard the concept that a women knows if she is going to sleep with you with in the first 2 min of original contact (I question this theory personally, but that’s for another post). The right brain the side of the brain; controls feelings and how she RESPONDS to feelings is the side of the brain that makes that decision that she what’s to get with you sexually. There is only one words of difference between lighting and lighting bugs.

Follow up Note: To execute this gambit you MUST be congruent. Like my PUA style is leans toward the formal (suit / tie ) now you DO NOT need those PROPS to recreate this gambit, but you can’t be acting like some kind of frat boy kid go for the gentleman hand kiss and then go into talking about scored with 2 chicks the other night, make sense?.
So to use this gambit it has to fit well in the patterns and gambits sarge objectives.

Great questions quest!

Quest84
04-25-2010, 12:11 AM
lol nice dude. i'm digin' the right side of the brain, emotional part. I'm just having trouble following, or convincing myself on it. do you know a link with this information so i can read the "science" behind it that way i can internalize it?
and yeah, i can totally see it working with a suit/tie type dude.
I'm personally transforming my look too this summer. I want to go for the GQ look. but dam, that shit is expensive! lol

0rion
04-25-2010, 04:53 PM
This site will be helpful talking about the Left vs. Right hemispheres of the brain and the connections between the that uses the corpus collosum.

http://mondovista.com/bicamx.html <= enjoy.

Next on the menu, how to connect with the three levels of the mind:

- conscious mind
- sub-conscious mind
- primitive mind

and how to use that information to compose the perfect sarge from start to finish; stay turned gents.

Quest84
04-27-2010, 01:35 AM
good shit.