Cheating..Well sort of.

[the one]

I met this blonde 9 a few months ago. I played around with her for a while, but we never really had a serious relationship. I party a lot and I lead a pretty fast life style. I'm a natural with women, so I'm not here to ask for advice..just to vent really.

Anyway I was fucking around with this girl. We hooked up a few days a week and stuff. Well, we never really stated that we were in a relationship. The other day we got fucking trashed at a party, and I ended up leaving with a few of my friends to hit up a different party and left here there. I later found out she hooked up with this dude there. I don't really care that much, but I was really put off by it.

Needless to say, I stopped talking to her. The past few days she hasn't stopped calling me. She's really upset about what happen, and now all of a sudden she wants a relationship. She keeps telling me how sad she is and how horrible she feels, but I don't really care, I don't need that shit. Should I keep talking to her? Is she really worth being in a relationship with? I don't think I really need that shit, but part of me really likes her, and she seems to be obsessed with me now. WTF?

[Anestis]

you're a natural with girls?
Well, everyone can always improve their game dude no matter if youre mystery or an AFC...

I would say tht if shes a 9 blonde, why not?
You should grab every good oppertunity and learn from it, this might be the start of a good relationship or a bad one, either way you will learn something new, tht you can bring into the future;)

Since shes been calling you and saying tht she feels bad and stuff, then she really does dude! Why else would she bother to call YOU? She could have chosen to stick with the other guy she hooked up with, ya?

So my opinion on this is give it a shot, try, fail, learn... If its not a failure then you're just having a good time, but if you're not into having a relationship at the moment then just tell her that you dont want a relationship, hang up and move on.

Good luck!:)

[PizzaLord]

Why the hell are you pissed off with her?! You are not in a mongamous relationship with the chick.

You have no right to be jealous. She has no reason to feel bad.

If you are jealous and she does feel bad that you guys both have some serious feelings for each other which you have been previously ignoring and not communicating.

So communicate.

[stolen crown]

Needless to say, I stopped talking to her. The past few days she hasn't stopped calling me. She's really upset about what happen, and now all of a sudden she wants a relationship. She keeps telling me how sad she is and how horrible she feels, but I don't really care, I don't need that shit. Should I keep talking to her? Is she really worth being in a relationship with? I don't think I really need that shit, but part of me really likes her, and she seems to be obsessed with me now. WTF?

Welcome to applicable case studies in String theory the more you ignore her the more she will want you back...Personally I no longer do relationships...my last two have ended horribly and I don't plan on having that headache again (you have no idea how difficult it is to get away from a fucking phsycho ex in a town of only 500,000 people) so I view no girl or woman as someone worth being in a relationship with...I would say keep your self minimally avaialble see her once and awhile if you decide you want to see her more great! go For it! but don't just make yourself totally available all of a sudden, she will lose interest a lot more quickly if she does not have to fight for your attentions.

[the one]

thanks for the advice guys.

I never said I was pissed off at her. I'm just kind of put off by it. Grossed out because the night after she fucks some random douche, she immediately comes to my house and tries to hook up with me. I didn't hook up with her...then I found out about it and I've just been distancing myself ever since. She still calls me and shit so I dunno. She tells me she wants a relationship, but I think I might be moving away to a new city soon anyway...aghhhh fuck it.

and the whole natural with girls thing...I just meant that a lot of the stuff that good PUAs do, I've been doing since before I even knew about the PUA community. I don't really do any rehearsed openers or anything like that, I like to keep my game natural.

[signul9]

Don't do it dude.

She DLV'd herself big time and is now trying to level out with your status. If anything give it time, keep your status high and string her a bit.

The pattern of forgiving girls and even more critically - second guessing your values - starts a alpha domino waterfall. Next thing you know you'll be crying in your Vodka while some manipulative chick has taken over your emotions and alphaness.

Or hell, just use her pivot one night and do the same thing to her she did to you. Hahaha, okay that'd be a major jerk move... But a great Field Report!

[Agent007]

Fuck her dude. (not literally) Go out on top. Ice her out for good and let her regret it. You don't want some dude's seconds.

[twizt]

If you do go out with her, don't make it happen too soon. Make her realize she fucked up, and it's going to take alot more than that to win over your affections. pure and simple. also try to be seen talking to other girls in front of her. let her know, u fuck up, you can be replaced. (NOT INTENTIONALLY)

[Lionheart]

IF you can let her know...you are the man...she
will bow and worship your c%ck...and she will
blow you with a snap of your fingers...then
I would say you could let her know you
would consider it. She needs to realize you
are the man...blow her off...return her calls
a day later....get her wet on the brain...
hopefully if the pie is worth it =....you
keep her around...if she's a solid 9.
Not a 9 like a 7...or some'in...
in any case...if you can't live without
being nursed by her in the late hours of
night.
that's my criteria...
my girl now...real HB9 dude...real...fo' real...
and before bed I just nurse her breasts for a while
like an infant...and I know that need to have her there....
these are the questions you need to ask yourself you
weirdo...
these are the right questions...
now.
put her on the john and pee on her.