Jepp J
04-08-2010, 10:25 PM
Hello Everybody...I'm new to the community and have been taking in all the information I can get...From attractions forums to books from Amazon...I think my face is now stuck in more books now, then ever in my school days...Mystery,Neil Strauss, Ross Jeffries, Savoy,Ron Copeland,Robert Green,Nlp, Palm Reading, you name it, I'm reading it or going to..Youtubing videos, body language,and just anything involving attraction..I'm steadily consuming material that will only make me better and I actually have shown some progress..I've been very lucky in that when I put my mind into something, not only do I get good...I Excel, but I still have a huge mountain to climb..
First and Foremost, I'm a AFC...All the way...I've always been in the LJBF zone, kicked to the curb for more attractive guys, and just plain ignored... and after my last failure I decided to make a change..Heartbreak is a great motivator..I think I'm one of the few guys to actually state that..That being said, I know I have to make many positive changes!! I grew up with 5 women..I should Have some kind of Jedi status now..Geesh, I should of wrote the book on females
The sad thing is, I always attract women...I'm a Firefighter for Christ sakes, A bad ass thru and thru.. I should just pick and choose...An Amog, A leader of Men, Confident,Humorous,Great Social Status..but just can't seem to find the right path just yet
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/Hal1.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/100_0901.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/Confidence.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/IMAG0014.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/l_680cd7b72c3247c9a4b51115405c11b4.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/IMAG0010.jpg
Just can't seem to keep them...My last was a hb10(Yes, I also learned the acronyms) A Model, or at least very photogenic, but I fucked it up by being TOO NICE..I know it now..Left for a Guy 6'1, better looking...that's it...the dude is a tool and there relationship only lasted a few weeks..but he got laid, I got tears...And a severe case of oneitus..No more neediness for this guy..I have to change..Move away from pain and into joy and fun with women. I have to Change!!! I have to Change!!!
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/16967720_8f4fc6811255217295.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/l_342ed815cd724344b8a3774965d688df.jpg
So far I've learned I've done many things wrong...I learned from movies..You know the type..Boy meets girl, fall in love..typical hollywood bs..I would of never thought that negging would work...and Low and behold..My reality is totally changing..I know how to read body language better, recognize IOI's, and just know if and when a can make out with a girl...I go into clubs(Peacocked by the way) totally a different person..And I see the other Afc..and think man...I should help this dude out, but I got to fix me first!!!
I appreciate any criticism, advice, I will post, ask questions, seek guidance!!! I'll be your 5 year old brother that always tags along and just asks way to many questions....I want to live a better life...I deserve a better life..All the great things I do for others...Charity,Source of Strength to others,Role model,Just a Common everyday good person who No longer is the "Nice Guy" or wants that tag..Instead of hearing "LJBF" I want to hear, "But I Just met you"...Don't get me wrong...I Love Women!!! We all do..that's why we are here..I want to have fun, meet many women, and If I'm lucky enough I will find the right one..I think I've finally learned to be Great to myself first and foremost..Because I Truly Deserve It
Thanks Everybody,
Jepp J
First and Foremost, I'm a AFC...All the way...I've always been in the LJBF zone, kicked to the curb for more attractive guys, and just plain ignored... and after my last failure I decided to make a change..Heartbreak is a great motivator..I think I'm one of the few guys to actually state that..That being said, I know I have to make many positive changes!! I grew up with 5 women..I should Have some kind of Jedi status now..Geesh, I should of wrote the book on females
The sad thing is, I always attract women...I'm a Firefighter for Christ sakes, A bad ass thru and thru.. I should just pick and choose...An Amog, A leader of Men, Confident,Humorous,Great Social Status..but just can't seem to find the right path just yet
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/Hal1.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/100_0901.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/Confidence.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/IMAG0014.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/l_680cd7b72c3247c9a4b51115405c11b4.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/IMAG0010.jpg
Just can't seem to keep them...My last was a hb10(Yes, I also learned the acronyms) A Model, or at least very photogenic, but I fucked it up by being TOO NICE..I know it now..Left for a Guy 6'1, better looking...that's it...the dude is a tool and there relationship only lasted a few weeks..but he got laid, I got tears...And a severe case of oneitus..No more neediness for this guy..I have to change..Move away from pain and into joy and fun with women. I have to Change!!! I have to Change!!!
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/16967720_8f4fc6811255217295.jpg
http://i537.photobucket.com/albums/ff338/jeppjohnboy/l_342ed815cd724344b8a3774965d688df.jpg
So far I've learned I've done many things wrong...I learned from movies..You know the type..Boy meets girl, fall in love..typical hollywood bs..I would of never thought that negging would work...and Low and behold..My reality is totally changing..I know how to read body language better, recognize IOI's, and just know if and when a can make out with a girl...I go into clubs(Peacocked by the way) totally a different person..And I see the other Afc..and think man...I should help this dude out, but I got to fix me first!!!
I appreciate any criticism, advice, I will post, ask questions, seek guidance!!! I'll be your 5 year old brother that always tags along and just asks way to many questions....I want to live a better life...I deserve a better life..All the great things I do for others...Charity,Source of Strength to others,Role model,Just a Common everyday good person who No longer is the "Nice Guy" or wants that tag..Instead of hearing "LJBF" I want to hear, "But I Just met you"...Don't get me wrong...I Love Women!!! We all do..that's why we are here..I want to have fun, meet many women, and If I'm lucky enough I will find the right one..I think I've finally learned to be Great to myself first and foremost..Because I Truly Deserve It
Thanks Everybody,
Jepp J