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Maverick07
08-18-2007, 08:06 AM
Ok been going out w/ this girl for almost 2 months now. Just last night I slipped her the finger and went down on her.. I guess I didn't get rid of her anti-slut mindset enough or it wasn't great (despite me finding the signs of blood flowing, hips gyrating, and such). She later told me that she shouldn't have let it happen and that she felt like a slut. She said she felt we shouldn't do that kind of stuff for awhile.
I told her that we have been dating for awhile and that our feelings took their course. Needless to say I dunno what to do could you guys help? I really want to do this kinda stuff with her. I basicly told her ok w/e I just want you to be comfortable but I am intending on freezing her out.

also I am going back to college in a week and she will be going back to a diff school in a week as well... so yea


thanks guys

-Silver-
08-18-2007, 10:56 AM
Two months with this girl, and she isn't even happy with basic sexual activities...? I hate to be the bearer of bad news but I don't think she's into you that much buddy. You've got to get her in the mood for this first, that's sex101, so do you put effort into foreplay or just go straight into things? It might be worth me writing a detailed post on foreplay actually... that's an idea.

Ok before I can give you any specific advice, i'll need you to answer these questions to give me a better idea of your situation:

1) Do you spend time on foreplay, or just go straight into sexual activities?

2) Does she do anything for you? Handjobs/Blowjobs?

3) When you go off to college and part ways, are you planning on staying as a couple and meeting up whenever you can?

-Silver-

Maverick07
08-19-2007, 10:52 AM
haha don't worry about this anymore, yes I spend time with foreplay and that junk, I think I rushed it too quickly but oh well. Her and I are done, I'm going off to college where I'll have my own place and can do what I want and all that jazz. Goodluck everyone here w/ your adventures