Instinct
03-07-2010, 07:19 PM
I've heard somewhere before, and I'm paraphrasing, "Aim for the moon and you might just land on the earth. But aim for the sun and you just might land on the moon."
I like to set VERY high goals for myself. And I believe that if I put my mind to them I can achieve them. The only thing that can stop me is myself. My entire life is based around this. I could rule the world if I wanted to, and no once could stop me. (Don't worry I'm not that maniacal :D )
I want to become a very high S&R value male. I want my health, wealth, and relationships handled. I don't just mean handled I mean like nearing perfection. A trait I've noticed about myself, is that I never accept the status quo. I'm always trying to get better.
There's ALWAYS something better. Without this philosophy I don't believe I'd ever improve anything. How can you get better if you just accept what you have? If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.
So I'm always improving EVERYTHING.
You should've seen me 2 years ago total rAFC with no social skills.
You should've seen me 1 year ago, total AFC with few social skills.
You should've seen me 6 months ago, AFC with good "friendly" social skills. (This was because I started studying them because I realized I needed them to get anywhere in life. Still not good enough for me though)
You should've seen me 3 months ago, AFC who could have a relationship if he wasn't such an AFC and got off his ass and got out. I got fed up with it, and decided I needed to get this handled. I soon discovered PU, and realized everything I had thought and was taught by society was dead wrong.
Today, you do see me. I'm a rookie PUA who is studying the Mystery Method, who's finally beaten approach anxiety, who realizes the importance of competence over confidence. I'm getting better at this, I always am.
One year from now, I can't tell you where I'll be, but I'll look back on this post. And realize how truly far I've come. I expect by then to be a good PUA who's out 4 nights a week with plenty of options. Who doesn't have to fake it anymore, because he's made it.
But why do I have to draw the line there, who says that one year from now I'm going to be at that level. What if one year from now I'm a GREAT PUA who's well-known and has even MORE options. The only person limiting me is myself.
If I went back in time and met myself 2 years ago, I never would've believed that I am where I am now. I wouldn't think it was possible. I always thought there'd be a limit, a place where I couldn't get any better. THERE IS NO LIMIT.
You can do anything you want, your worst enemy is yourself. NEVER, EVER, stop improving. Always go 10% further. I guarantee you you'll impress yourself.
These are my goals, and my philosophy. I'm just going to let the "chips fall where they may."
"Fuck off with your sofa units and strine green stripe patterns, I say never be complete, I say stop being perfect, I say let... lets evolve, let the chips fall where they may. " - Tyler Durden Fight Club (not the PUA, the Fight Club character)
I can become the best PUA who ever lived, and so can you. How? By doing it.
I like to set VERY high goals for myself. And I believe that if I put my mind to them I can achieve them. The only thing that can stop me is myself. My entire life is based around this. I could rule the world if I wanted to, and no once could stop me. (Don't worry I'm not that maniacal :D )
I want to become a very high S&R value male. I want my health, wealth, and relationships handled. I don't just mean handled I mean like nearing perfection. A trait I've noticed about myself, is that I never accept the status quo. I'm always trying to get better.
There's ALWAYS something better. Without this philosophy I don't believe I'd ever improve anything. How can you get better if you just accept what you have? If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.
So I'm always improving EVERYTHING.
You should've seen me 2 years ago total rAFC with no social skills.
You should've seen me 1 year ago, total AFC with few social skills.
You should've seen me 6 months ago, AFC with good "friendly" social skills. (This was because I started studying them because I realized I needed them to get anywhere in life. Still not good enough for me though)
You should've seen me 3 months ago, AFC who could have a relationship if he wasn't such an AFC and got off his ass and got out. I got fed up with it, and decided I needed to get this handled. I soon discovered PU, and realized everything I had thought and was taught by society was dead wrong.
Today, you do see me. I'm a rookie PUA who is studying the Mystery Method, who's finally beaten approach anxiety, who realizes the importance of competence over confidence. I'm getting better at this, I always am.
One year from now, I can't tell you where I'll be, but I'll look back on this post. And realize how truly far I've come. I expect by then to be a good PUA who's out 4 nights a week with plenty of options. Who doesn't have to fake it anymore, because he's made it.
But why do I have to draw the line there, who says that one year from now I'm going to be at that level. What if one year from now I'm a GREAT PUA who's well-known and has even MORE options. The only person limiting me is myself.
If I went back in time and met myself 2 years ago, I never would've believed that I am where I am now. I wouldn't think it was possible. I always thought there'd be a limit, a place where I couldn't get any better. THERE IS NO LIMIT.
You can do anything you want, your worst enemy is yourself. NEVER, EVER, stop improving. Always go 10% further. I guarantee you you'll impress yourself.
These are my goals, and my philosophy. I'm just going to let the "chips fall where they may."
"Fuck off with your sofa units and strine green stripe patterns, I say never be complete, I say stop being perfect, I say let... lets evolve, let the chips fall where they may. " - Tyler Durden Fight Club (not the PUA, the Fight Club character)
I can become the best PUA who ever lived, and so can you. How? By doing it.