Question to Ladies :)

[Incy]

I've heard one interesting thing about the way women think and the way guys think.

We all know that women can not understand our fear of approach (or so I've heard). The last girl I've confessed to that guys have approach anxiety told me "I was crazy. What's there to fear? What if she is dumb as a cow behind this facade of make-up and Dolce&Gabanna clothes and such?"

And then a friend of mine (a guy though.) told me that when a woman sees a guy who hesitates to approach her ... she doesn't think in terms of "oh , a coward. Sheesh. Screw that loser. " :) Instead, she thinks "Oh, he must have noticed something unattractive about me. That's why he didn't approach me. :( "

How true is that? Do you not totally see that sometimes guys are hesitant to make the move (like approach or go for a kiss and etc...) because they risk "a rejection" and instead you think "Oh, I'm not attractive enough for him to notice me..."?

I think it is overgeneralized in what I've said and I still don't have a full understanding of this because it has just recently clicked with me, but I'm curious to what extent this is true? What's happening in your heads at these moments? :) Maybe I am wrong?

I'd appreciate any input. :)

[Havok123]

And then a friend of mine (a guy though.) told me that when a woman sees a guy who hesitates to approach her ... she doesn't think in terms of "oh , a coward. Sheesh. Screw that loser. " :) Instead, she thinks "Oh, he must have noticed something unattractive about me. That's why he didn't approach me. :( "

How true is that? Do you not totally see that sometimes guys are hesitant to make the move (like approach or go for a kiss and etc...) because they risk "a rejection" and instead you think "Oh, I'm not attractive enough for him to notice me..."?

I'd appreciate any input. :)

I'll answer you bro... if you talk with a HB10, you will realize that she KNOWS SHE IS A 10, she is very very aware that she is hot shit and is highly desired. However, it is the "humbleness" about this reality and power that makes her a 10.

To completely answer your question, your friend is wrong. If she is a 10, she is not going to get BUTT HURT cause some dude didn't come talk to her, that takes away from her "10" attitude. Women are freaking smart dude... so smart that it runs into thier unconcious... which is why they can hold 5 conversations at the same time.

The same is applied for EVERY aspect of the game, albiet "kissing" or ANY kind of advancement. Here is a great quote that will help you get into the frame of getting what you want/deserve:

"A woman will forgive a man for escalating, but won't forgive him for not making the move."

So, if you ESCALATE and she blows you out or doesn't respond the way you expected her to... take a step back... and define what you need to do more of to get to the next step... in most cases it is lack of comfort. Don't get butt hurt about it, it is in understanding the process that you will enjoy and smirk when she resists your advances... this is the best game of all... the type that killer sex scenes are made of in the movies.

Cheers brother.

[Esme]

I think woman are more insecure than most men on this forum think, and the worst you can get from a woman for approaching is a fear-of-strangers reaction, not a he's-not-good-enough-so-I'll-snub-him reaction. If women where so brave, then why don't they make some approaches eh?

Some women will know they're pretty and be ungraceful about it, but if there is one pimple, fat roll or wrong hair they'll not be like that.

Woman are smart, but not overconfident.