Spice Girls Routine

[Jazzcat]

Last night I opened a girl and 5 minutes into the conversation she told me that she takes her Asian clients (she's a salesmanager of some kind) to karaoke-bars, where the clients sing in Thai or whatever and she usually sings Spice Girls songs. So I decided to ask her that if she'd be a Spice Girl, which one she would be (I don't know whether I read about this bit or came up with it myself, if it's the first credit to whoever invented it).

My objective was to let her DLV to me if she came up with Sporty (can't sing and not beautiful), Baby (naive and just too sweet), Scary (too much hair and piercings) or Posh (skinny and not too smart).

However, she said she'd be Ginger. Now Ginger can't sing either, but at least she looks like she'd screw the Johnson off, so that'd be my choice.

So I have two questions: did she DHV to me with her choice or was she just being sincere? And more inportant: You guys have any ideas to work this into a standard routine developed to let the woman DLV?

Thanks & grtz,

JC

[Czech]

So I have two questions: did she DHV to me with her choice or was she just being sincere?
I think she DHV'd herself by catching you off guard, regardless of whether or not she did it intentionally.

And more inportant: You guys have any ideas to work this into a standard routine developed to let the woman DLV?
Wrong thinking my friend. You should never want to lower a woman's value. Rather, you should raise her value with your own. THAT'S when attraction is formed. Think about it logically: Is a woman attracted to a bum when she ends up on the street? No. Is a woman attracted to a popular man who is always having a good time? Definitely!

I think what you mean to say is how can you neg the target with this routine. In that case, don't ask which spice girl she would be, but tell her. If she asks why, tell her.

E.g:
You: "Bla bla bla. If you were a spice girl, I think you'd be Baby Spice!"
Her: "Why her?"
You: "You've got that cute thing going for ya. *put your arm around her* I'm totally adopting you as my new little sister."

[Jazzcat]

I think I understand the concept - I'm not meant to let her DLV, but rather I have to DHV to her by means of a neg... Reading your comment makes me realise there's a huge difference in the result - in the first case, she doesn't perceive me as having higher value at all and she would definately not like to feel lower valued about herself, while in your scenario I'm playfull, DHV (having a fun opinion on her) and she still feels good...

Thanks a lot, man - it's very helpfull in finding the right mindset...