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reno
08-13-2007, 12:37 PM
I was working on a 3 set last nite and things were going really well. The target was non responsive at first but a bit of cocky funny seemed to win her around. I think I may have focussed too much on the funny though. A guy came over to slag my hat but I seriously AMOGed him and that got me some social credit - should have thanked him for that.

So Im working the target a bit, not really isolating her though. Eventually I accidentally pull out a body language routine, telling her that people may see her as aggressive ( I had been negging her about that throughout ) because of her body language, but that I could see she was a nice girl, and I told her what she was doing wrong. She loved me for it, body language changed completely, she called her friend over to tell her about it. So this chat, with the whole set, lasted about half an hour. But even after the body language routine I never number closed or anything. I walked off, as always, the nice guy - which is bullshit. I was thinking over it today, what I came up with was that I should have called her aside, still with the body language thing told her she had a lovely smile and eyes and that's how I knew she was nice, then number closed. Asked her her plan for the rest of the night, and maybe kiss closed.

Any thoughts?

New to this shit, but loving it

Reno

-Silver-
08-13-2007, 12:45 PM
She called her friend over? Then DHV to her as well, winning over the target and her friend. Once you're getting your IOIs the chance of a number close failing is slim-to-none! 'I've really got to get going, you guys have held me here for waaaay to long! But we should continue this conversation!' And smile! She'll offer to give you her number, or agree to the idea of talking again but wait for you to ask for her number. Either way you can get it without isolating if the friends love you just as much!

-Silver-

Tiptop
08-13-2007, 03:15 PM
A guy came over to slag my hat but I seriously AMOGed him and that got me some social credit - should have thanked him for that.


Just curious what did he say and how did you respond? I'm interested in knowing what to do, rather than just belting the guy.

reno
08-14-2007, 01:36 AM
Hey Tiptop. He made it quite easy really, he was dressed like a preppy dick. I just laughed, gave him no cred at all, and told him he should be off playing croquet or cricket somewhere, and maybe he should tie a jumper lightly around his shoulders. The girls not only ignored him but started complimenting my hat in front of him. He tried some sort of comeback, but I just made the swinging the bat motion from cricket, he ended up completely turning coat and trying to get in then by saying maybe my hat was cool. Dickhead!! But like I said, he did me a huge favour

Tiptop
08-14-2007, 07:48 AM
Ahh, very suave! Some guys I hang out with that dress like that probably would have thrown down right there though. Does that happen to anyone, they try to AMOG and the fight starts?

reno
08-14-2007, 08:16 AM
Well I suppose you gotta use ur discretion. If they're big and dangerous, maybe try something different, a little less aggressive, but still taking the piss. The thing is to always stay smart and cheaky, outwit him, make him feel stupid and if he's a big jock, he'll just feel twice as stupid trying to start an actual fight, the girls will always be on your side when they see you aren't scared of him - which you show through verbal abuse, and that you are intelligent enough to not have to start a fist fight to deal with your problems. If all else fails, just run - ha - only messing, it's fool proof!

oscarkool2
08-17-2007, 01:28 AM
She called her friend over? Then DHV to her as well, winning over the target and her friend. Once you're getting your IOIs the chance of a number close failing is slim-to-none! 'I've really got to get going, you guys have held me here for waaaay to long! But we should continue this conversation!' And smile! She'll offer to give you her number, or agree to the idea of talking again but wait for you to ask for her number. Either way you can get it without isolating if the friends love you just as much!

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winner. dont spend 30 minutes talking about body language lol. you've probably heard of highpoints before. When you get her to a high point, thats when you throw in the 'gotta jet but lets continue this another time' and get the number. thats assuming youre just trying to get numbers. you could easily kiss close too.