Rick Tiero
01-24-2010, 09:11 AM
Background and my testimonial for this opener
Hey guys, this one dates back to the time before i knew about PU. So I would always go up to women with compliments, needless to say i quickly learned that it didn't get me anything other than a thanks and a goodbye.
So one night I asked "Are compliments just totally useless in interaction?" That was the start of a ten minute conversation and we shared a couple of laughs, before she left she kissed my cheek and that was my first sucsess.
I have done some improvement to it since then, I use it about four times each week. I must admit it has yet to truly fail me when delivered correctly, meaning even busy women respond to this when you put in a FTC.
I've done it so many times that i have difficulties defining it, so I will give many variations and tips. How to perform with a wing etc.
Opener improvements and bulletpoints
The skeleton for this opener is the question about the nesecity of random compliments. In your state of mind women do this to YOU "I love your feather boa" and etc. Problem is that it doesn't go anywhere, so what do you guys(being the group) do when this happens?
So since you see the targets peer-group as having a lifestyle similiar to yours the rapport you feel to them tells you that they probably get hit on from time to time themselves. Therefore you and the guys are in the same boat, they're cool and it's okay to talk together for a little while.
you are both extremly sexy 9s and you are a 10.
If you can convey this through what you do and how you act you only need to say "heh, are compliments lame or what?" however variating situations calls for various variations of the opener.
Variations
"What are you supposed to say when someone just comes at you like: cool t-shirt!"
"I dont know, thank you i suppose?"
"Aight, dont keep me for to long but what do you think about this, I have this really nice t-shirt from my ex I had to leave at home because when i wear it women almost throw themselves at me, they always say the same thing like: cool shirt, i hate your shirt, nice shirt. Problem is I just say thank you and leave, do you ever get compliments?"
From here you should be able to generate a lot of good stuff from your theme, wich is basicly your own arena, social dynamics. Soark it up with routines.
Another cool variation I remember doing was "Do you guys take compliments." And they where like hell yeah, believing i had this real nice compliment for them, then i go of into the story and it was just hillarious.
With a wing
Stand in fornt of your wing shoulder to shoulder in good proximity to the set, start laughing, show you enjoy each others company, then turn to the set after bursting out in laugh.
"Hah, We just have to ask these guys what they think!"
The story changes slightly making it so its your wings sexy t-shirt. If he is high value, you are high value.
"Do you guys ever get compliments? What do you say to it?"
Men first women second.
"cool, then we're cool, we can't stay here all night though, but Wing here had to leave his coolest shirt at home because women always stop him to comment on it, I shit you not, we've been discussing what he can say to them because he usualy says thanks and walks away, you get compliments what do you suggest?"
Here from it's the wings responsability to work the obstacles for you and help you provide a hurricane of a conversation, so that everyone participates.
On the buss
Here you can't use the FTC, since you're obviously on a buss and trapped together, therefore you will demonstrate the willingness to turn away first.
smile at her and say:
"do you happen to know the difference between an elephant and an elephant painted green." Have a smart voice, not an I-am-telling-a-joke voice.
"No?"
"well... you see, the elephant painted green can hide in the salad!" Then shake her hand and introduce yourself and ask where she is going. Say it was nice to meet her and turn away for a moment. Then turn back and use the opener.
"By the way, I never bothered to ask, but since you're here do you ever get compliments?"
Closure
I really hope you have a good understanding of this opener and feel tempted to use this in field, please feel free to tips me about similiar openers, or ways to make this opener even better, tell me where you took this opener and what you went into next.
Much love
Hey guys, this one dates back to the time before i knew about PU. So I would always go up to women with compliments, needless to say i quickly learned that it didn't get me anything other than a thanks and a goodbye.
So one night I asked "Are compliments just totally useless in interaction?" That was the start of a ten minute conversation and we shared a couple of laughs, before she left she kissed my cheek and that was my first sucsess.
I have done some improvement to it since then, I use it about four times each week. I must admit it has yet to truly fail me when delivered correctly, meaning even busy women respond to this when you put in a FTC.
I've done it so many times that i have difficulties defining it, so I will give many variations and tips. How to perform with a wing etc.
Opener improvements and bulletpoints
The skeleton for this opener is the question about the nesecity of random compliments. In your state of mind women do this to YOU "I love your feather boa" and etc. Problem is that it doesn't go anywhere, so what do you guys(being the group) do when this happens?
So since you see the targets peer-group as having a lifestyle similiar to yours the rapport you feel to them tells you that they probably get hit on from time to time themselves. Therefore you and the guys are in the same boat, they're cool and it's okay to talk together for a little while.
you are both extremly sexy 9s and you are a 10.
If you can convey this through what you do and how you act you only need to say "heh, are compliments lame or what?" however variating situations calls for various variations of the opener.
Variations
"What are you supposed to say when someone just comes at you like: cool t-shirt!"
"I dont know, thank you i suppose?"
"Aight, dont keep me for to long but what do you think about this, I have this really nice t-shirt from my ex I had to leave at home because when i wear it women almost throw themselves at me, they always say the same thing like: cool shirt, i hate your shirt, nice shirt. Problem is I just say thank you and leave, do you ever get compliments?"
From here you should be able to generate a lot of good stuff from your theme, wich is basicly your own arena, social dynamics. Soark it up with routines.
Another cool variation I remember doing was "Do you guys take compliments." And they where like hell yeah, believing i had this real nice compliment for them, then i go of into the story and it was just hillarious.
With a wing
Stand in fornt of your wing shoulder to shoulder in good proximity to the set, start laughing, show you enjoy each others company, then turn to the set after bursting out in laugh.
"Hah, We just have to ask these guys what they think!"
The story changes slightly making it so its your wings sexy t-shirt. If he is high value, you are high value.
"Do you guys ever get compliments? What do you say to it?"
Men first women second.
"cool, then we're cool, we can't stay here all night though, but Wing here had to leave his coolest shirt at home because women always stop him to comment on it, I shit you not, we've been discussing what he can say to them because he usualy says thanks and walks away, you get compliments what do you suggest?"
Here from it's the wings responsability to work the obstacles for you and help you provide a hurricane of a conversation, so that everyone participates.
On the buss
Here you can't use the FTC, since you're obviously on a buss and trapped together, therefore you will demonstrate the willingness to turn away first.
smile at her and say:
"do you happen to know the difference between an elephant and an elephant painted green." Have a smart voice, not an I-am-telling-a-joke voice.
"No?"
"well... you see, the elephant painted green can hide in the salad!" Then shake her hand and introduce yourself and ask where she is going. Say it was nice to meet her and turn away for a moment. Then turn back and use the opener.
"By the way, I never bothered to ask, but since you're here do you ever get compliments?"
Closure
I really hope you have a good understanding of this opener and feel tempted to use this in field, please feel free to tips me about similiar openers, or ways to make this opener even better, tell me where you took this opener and what you went into next.
Much love