Havok123
01-05-2010, 09:31 PM
I am starting to see a pattern emerge in my game.
I dont "hide" that I study attraction/suduction and relationships. Hell, all my openers and conversations actually start of and are structured in that such way.
"hey, do you think you can get to know someone from just looking at them?"
"Hi, I have a severe passion for meeting strangers... whats your passion little lady?"
I always "pick up" by talking about "pick up". Even after sex, I will share with them mystery's vids, david deangelo... all the stuff that makes me who I am, THEY ALL LOVE THIS. However...
Something is clicking with these women that brings out the BEAST within them. I dont know if they think that by being aggressive that they are going to win my affection or what... but all the women in my life at some point start battering my social experiments and the life I am leading... primarily with having an open relationship.
My main question is, how do I tell these woman that I HONESTLY enjoy women and I am not settling down with one partner right now? I ALWAYS tell them after I screen and find out if I want to get to know her: "Hey, its great that we are vibing, but I have many other women in my life and if you think that will be a problem for you, then this wont work out."
I realize this creates a HUGE jealousy plotline and pre-selection... but quite frankly, its me being honest, and its not doing the trick. These women are trying to resist thier desires and almost telling me how they hate that I study and practice attraction while they are ripping thier/my clothes off, leaving poems on my front door or trying to do what they think will "hook me" ...by having sex.
I am new at "open relationship" dating and I am just trying to make sure I am not communicating my intentions or desires confusingly.
????
I dont "hide" that I study attraction/suduction and relationships. Hell, all my openers and conversations actually start of and are structured in that such way.
"hey, do you think you can get to know someone from just looking at them?"
"Hi, I have a severe passion for meeting strangers... whats your passion little lady?"
I always "pick up" by talking about "pick up". Even after sex, I will share with them mystery's vids, david deangelo... all the stuff that makes me who I am, THEY ALL LOVE THIS. However...
Something is clicking with these women that brings out the BEAST within them. I dont know if they think that by being aggressive that they are going to win my affection or what... but all the women in my life at some point start battering my social experiments and the life I am leading... primarily with having an open relationship.
My main question is, how do I tell these woman that I HONESTLY enjoy women and I am not settling down with one partner right now? I ALWAYS tell them after I screen and find out if I want to get to know her: "Hey, its great that we are vibing, but I have many other women in my life and if you think that will be a problem for you, then this wont work out."
I realize this creates a HUGE jealousy plotline and pre-selection... but quite frankly, its me being honest, and its not doing the trick. These women are trying to resist thier desires and almost telling me how they hate that I study and practice attraction while they are ripping thier/my clothes off, leaving poems on my front door or trying to do what they think will "hook me" ...by having sex.
I am new at "open relationship" dating and I am just trying to make sure I am not communicating my intentions or desires confusingly.
????