TheRuthlessOppossum
08-10-2007, 07:13 PM
Hi, everyone, I'm new here, so bare with me while I figure out what posts go where. I'm actually 22, but I figure I'm closer to 21 than 30, so I'm posting this in here.
Anyhow...
I've met this girl from school who is in classes with me. She's older and is about to get divorced (she found out very recently). I'm pretty sure she's physically attracted to me (not that that's a prerequisite, but I think it helps) and she's recently invited me out. I'll be spending a lot of time with her, because we're working on a project together. Sounds great, right?
Well, my concern is getting stuck in the "friend zone." She's already started opening up to me about how much she misses her husband and so on and so forth. I've been a good listener and whatnot.
While I'm certainly sensitive to the fact that she's going through some shit, I also want to be the rebound guy - if not relationship wise, then at least sexually. And quite frankly, I think it would be good for her, too.
So, since I've never really done the whole rebound thing, I would appreciate some advice how to proceed with this.
Thanks!
Anyhow...
I've met this girl from school who is in classes with me. She's older and is about to get divorced (she found out very recently). I'm pretty sure she's physically attracted to me (not that that's a prerequisite, but I think it helps) and she's recently invited me out. I'll be spending a lot of time with her, because we're working on a project together. Sounds great, right?
Well, my concern is getting stuck in the "friend zone." She's already started opening up to me about how much she misses her husband and so on and so forth. I've been a good listener and whatnot.
While I'm certainly sensitive to the fact that she's going through some shit, I also want to be the rebound guy - if not relationship wise, then at least sexually. And quite frankly, I think it would be good for her, too.
So, since I've never really done the whole rebound thing, I would appreciate some advice how to proceed with this.
Thanks!