She's telling me about a guy she likes

[ILikeCandy]

The year before last, this girl was in my class. I was immediately attracted to her. She has my favorite body type. After a while she started asking me for help. A few times she came over, to my place, alone, to do homework. And she would get all dressed up and perfumed.

So.. we liked each other. But for some reason, I can't remember why, we never did anything. Plus the semester was over and she went back home.

Then I went away for one year.

Now I came back. And at first I wasn’t AS attracted to her as I was before. But one time we were in the computer lab, and she caught me looking at her boobs.

But we got and get along GREAT. We laugh like crazy. I can practically read her mind. She hardly has to say anything, and I know what she is talking about.

So now we are in a group project together, and we all go to her house.

So now near finals, she starts telling me about this guy she likes. The first time, we talked for hours about that. I was so surprised she was talking to me, about something personal, and about other than school. The next day we met to work on the group project. And I realized I liked her. Then 4 days later, she let me ask her questions about him.

But she describes him… in a familiar way. They met like a year ago. She says that whatever she asks, he says yes. She says she flirts with him, by laughing at his jokes. See, it sounds like me.
Except for the part where she says he held her hand. That I haven’t done.

Bad thing about this girl is, if I ask her to go and do anything that is not school related, it’s no. Which I think I remember her doing before I left. Also, a couple times, after group project, she waits till I leave, then asks if the other girl in the group wants to go to a movie.
So I’m kinda like… she likes me? She like me not?

The other thing is, that the end of next week is the end of the semester. SO we will be off, and apart, for one month.

[The Wild One]

lol dude that's a clue to leave or go for one of her friends. blah blah I like this guy blah blah talks about him again.. stop alright alright lady talk to this random man here about whatever his name is I got to go do something more interesting like teach my three year old cousin how to tie his shoes. You have a nice day bye..

If she is obviously about another person screw wasting time with her move on to the next girl with the same body type. Trust me theirs plenty why do you think they sell cloths in her size! F that and find the next 36-24-36 theirs others trust me.

In all reality I just ignore girls that do that and move on. I just leave because it's like I don't want to pretend to be interested in what shes talking about so...

[Czech]

Hmm.. Wild One I'm going to have to both agree and disagree with you on this one. There's too many PUAs out there who say, "leave her and find the next one." A true PUA gets the girl he wants, even when she's playing with him. ILikeCandy, you're going to hate yourself for not trying to at least kiss-close this girl.

But she describes him… in a familiar way. They met like a year ago. She says that whatever she asks, he says yes. She says she flirts with him, by laughing at his jokes. See, it sounds like me.
I'd first start by stop doing whatever she asks. Be unpredictable. Don't be this other guy. Be you.
go for one of her friends
This is what I liked about The Wild One's answer. :) Flirt with other girls (preferably her friends) and see how the girl you like reacts. Does she try to win back over your attention? Does she suddenly get annoyed at you? It's the perfect test for seeing if she likes you or not.
Also, a couple times, after group project, she waits till I leave, then asks if the other girl in the group wants to go to a movie.
Movies are boring. Unless you both want an excuse to mack in public, try something more creative like Christmas shopping. Get her friends involved too. In the very least, even if you don't attract this girl you'll have upped your value around both her and her friends. If you manage to get alone with her, cold read her with a Cube Test or ESP. Using words like "imagine" "feel" and "believe" will also subconsciously make her feel more connected to you.

Good luck :)

P.S. It sounds like you're in high school. Don't forget to use Kino! Even just a slight touch on the arm will get her attracted.

[ILikeCandy]

Hmm.. ILikeCandy, you're going to hate yourself for not trying to at least kiss-close this girl.

I'd first start by stop doing whatever she asks. Be unpredictable. Don't be this other guy. Be you.


Thanks Czech. Finally some real advice


This is what I liked about The Wild One's answer. :) Flirt with other girls (preferably her friends) and see how the girl you like reacts. Does she try to win back over your attention? Does she suddenly get annoyed at you? It's the perfect test for seeing if she likes you or not.


She interrupts.
Check this out, whenever I am talking to the other girl in the group, she will interrupt like crazy. Whenever she is talking to someone, and I show up, she will stop talking to them, and talk to me from then on. She won't go back to talking to them.

The other girl bought a new jacket, and I was complimenting her on it. The girl kept going, "Mine's got that too. Mine does that too."


P.S. Don't forget to use Kino! Even just a slight touch on the arm will get her attracted.


Yeah I just realized, I haven't been doing that at all.

[The Wild One]

Ya but when your a new guy you don't always get the first girl you like. So it's best to move on and kinda get comfortable playing the field. Eventually you catch on plus even if your the master of laying girls you still f*ck it up from time to time. Not every girl is available or should be picked up. That's just a fact of life.

[Czech]

Ya but when your a new guy you don't always get the first girl you like. So it's best to move on and kinda get comfortable playing the field. Eventually you catch on plus even if your the master of laying girls you still f*ck it up from time to time. Not every girl is available or should be picked up. That's just a fact of life.
Of course. But unless she tells you to stay the f**k away from her, don't give up. To quote another PUA, "The longer you stay in set, the more experience points you get. The more experience points you get, the faster you level up. And in this game, everyone wants to level up." So even if you know you can't get the girl, at least you'll know how to better deal with the situation next time it comes around. The key is to not get emotionally involved.

She interrupts.
Check this out, whenever I am talking to the other girl in the group, she will interrupt like crazy. Whenever she is talking to someone, and I show up, she will stop talking to them, and talk to me from then on. She won't go back to talking to them.

The other girl bought a new jacket, and I was complimenting her on it. The girl kept going, "Mine's got that too. Mine does that too."
Next time this happens, neg her. Say something like, "Wow, you're like my little sister/cousin, always needing attention. It's kinda cute you know." *honest smile, maybe a little kino* Shut her down, then go back to talking to her friend. Let the girl you like come to you.

[ILikeCandy]

Flirt with other girls (preferably her friends) and see how the girl you like reacts. Does she try to win back over your attention? Does she suddenly get annoyed at you? It's the perfect test for seeing if she likes you or not.


What does it mean if she tries to win back my attention?
What does it mean if she gets annoyed?