Friends into lovers

[Rodehard]

There is this dogma in the PUA community about how hard it is to go from friends to lovers. There are many posts about "How do I make her love me" on this site. My problem/question for the ladies is the opposite:

Most of my friends are women, HB9-10s from South Beach. (no benefits) There has been a intermittent yet recurring theme among a few of these friends where they decide I am Prince Charming and as such she and I should mover from friends to an LTR.

These women know I do not do the LTR thing, and I never make a pass at them or refer to them in anyway that indicates a dating interest. My paradigm is that if I date my Wing chick, I have to stop doing all her model friends.

What does a guy say/do to let a woman know he does not want to date her without rejecting her.

The thing that baffles me here is they see how I am with girls I date. I may be prince charming, but once I do you, I get bored and sooner or later move on. Why do they think they can change me of that.

[zeitgeist]

There is this dogma in the PUA community about how hard it is to go from friends to lovers. There are many posts about "How do I make her love me" on this site. My problem/question for the ladies is the opposite:

Most of my friends are women, HB9-10s from South Beach. (no benefits) There has been a intermittent yet recurring theme among a few of these friends where they decide I am Prince Charming and as such she and I should mover from friends to an LTR.

These women know I do not do the LTR thing, and I never make a pass at them or refer to them in anyway that indicates a dating interest. My paradigm is that if I date my Wing chick, I have to stop doing all her model friends.

What does a guy say/do to let a woman know he does not want to date her without rejecting her.

The thing that baffles me here is they see how I am with girls I date. I may be prince charming, but once I do you, I get bored and sooner or later move on. Why do they think they can change me of that.

because your pimpness is off the charts.

[Stoic]

You were not being clear. What is it you want to know or be able to do? Do you want to fuck your hot South Beach friends? Do you want to trick them into thinking you want an LTR when really you have the attention span of an 8 year old with ADHD? (Don't take that as an insult, because so do I) Maybe you just can't have everything. Maybe you just have to be happy and use them as pivots and wings. Maybe you have to not worry about rejecting them and create a situation where they will hit on you and you promise nothing.

What is it that you really want from your HB10 SOBE friends?

Personally, I think you shoudl quit thinking about sleeping with any of them and should instead introduce them to me! ;) I live in Palm Beach so I can come down and visit you, thanks, you are now my new BFF-Favorite Wingman! LOL