Girls dont want to be pursued by guys too good for them?

[nasty nate]

Ok so heres the situation theres girl ive been into for about 2 weeks i mostly see her at my college parties and i saw her yesterday and a week from yesterday. Let me start with last week so i bumped into her and she smiles at me and asks me how i been its funny because she completely verbally approached me then she complimented me on my hair telling me she likes it because i grew it out from last school year. I knew of her prior to our little interaction because we had a few classes together last year but we really didn't talk. After this little interaction we drifted away as the night went on. So then last night omg she looked sexy sorry little digression lol i wake into a party in her apartment and i see her and she starts talking to me and i noticed the way she was talking to me seemed like she was seeking approval like she asked if i like her outfit and if i even know her name. Then we started dancin and she is a sexy dancer i had my shirt of and she was rubbin my body it was so hit lol another digresion. So we stoped dancin for a bit talked a bit more and like i said i noticed that she was seeking aproval when we talked like she asked me if i liked her film fottage and such. I got distracted with drinking more which was a big mistake and we drifted apart. So i see her at the bigger party about an hour later shes all up on this other dude who honestly not to sound concided was skiny awakard with bad posture and walked with pigeon toes. I wanted to grab her from hi but though it woul look bad so i let it go for a bit hoping they would seperate but then i noticed they started maiking out. So i was like fuck ill just go game other girls.
It is also funny because i was talking to her roommate sometime during the night and she was telling me how all her group of friends think im hot something ive never heard before. So i was thinking is it possible this girl who i was into perceived me as being unattainable and settled for less? Because i was not talking to her for long enough for me to show im interested in her. Should i even try next time i see her i mean im still into her even though i saw another guy making out with her shouldn't that make me not like her lol i dont know my emotions are all over the place right now a lil hung over and life has me against the wall and i love girls so much i feel like it will kill me lol
thanks for reading.

[dreadsOH]

she was prolly tryna make u jealous or some chick shit like that

basically shes not confident enough to just be honest with you. and honestly, unless drunk shes gonna be a huge annoyance to deal with.

so id prolly go get drunk with her and her girlfriends

[AdheneManx]

Hey friend,

Sorry to read your plight! Sounds like a bit of a bummed out situation.

From the story you've told me I get the impression it had little to do with you and she was out on a party night. One of those prime nights where any girl is just out to pick up someone or anyone who gives them the right emotional response.

In the same way you live to hit a party and meet some lovely new lady in your life, funnily enough, women do the exact same thing in reverse. Women LOVE to be in LOVE and love to have fun as much as we do, provided the right circumstances exist for that too happen.

You my friend, just missed the opportunity.

Probably wasn't the alcohol, although that never helps (don't drink when running real game), what happened is you broke set / allowed the set to break. Maybe you didn't stack routines?

Make sure you use opinion openers or conversation threads as it gives the conversation somewhere to go. If you need practise on this find a male (friend) or a female you're not attracted to and try to stack routines with them for practise. It's a great way to expand the friendship and develop your skill.

Just avoid the making out / seduction / insertion of any bodily components.

Why did you break set anyway? You don't break set with a girl unless it's really just not going right or you actually have to leave for whatever reason.

Guys frequently take a phone number from a girl with the intention of calling to start a date at a later point in time. Don't bother with that, just straight in there, funny, playful, DHV, wait for IOI's, stack routines, kino escalate.

Next time round you'll be the guy on the dance floor she's locking lips with and you'll both be very happy about it.

If these concepts are new to you then have a read over all the material on this website and grab yourself a copy of Mystery & Matador's books / various pulibcations.

Also, you never want to focus on what the other guy is doing, looks like, smells like, says or does, you'd best pretend he doesn't exist unless you can truly out game him on a mutual battle field (you gotta have the balls too).

Never try to DLV the other guy to her either, it just won't work, it'll only make you look bad.

You've gotta DHV with her if you read that she isn't seeing you in the light you want her to see you, but it's more than that. You need to do it in a way that is really interesting to her. Be funny, captivating, interesting and give her a reason to want to be sucking your tongue out on the dance floor.

That's my say, I best get to work!

Good luck getting out of the emotional slammer for the next few days.

Kind regards,


Adhene Manx.

[Diablos]

They just simply think that there's nothing much for them to change in a guy and that they would simply be cheated on or being hurt by them .

Sigh , girls and their warped shit .

[Czech]

Great post AdheneManx. It seems pretty clear that she was trying to make you jealous or lost interest because you didn't make a move. Just go for the kiss with no regrets. Once you've k-closed, you can try to bounce her back to your place or for an instant date. ;)