Do You Need Lube for Deep Spot Technique

[condenser]

Do you need to use lube for the deep spot technique or will it hurt/scratch her if you don't?

[Alacrity]

No, you don't really need it unless she is one of those girls that doesn't produce enough on her own.

Just go slow and work up to it to give her body time to produce lubrication on it's own.

Big thing though, make sure you keep your fingernails cut short or you will scratch her and make her bleed.

[GapModel]

I always use lube, but I had a question regarding amount of "sessions."

When you guys first use G spot massage or Deep Spot Method, how many sessions does it usually take you for the girl to finally orgasm.

I noticed when girls have never had a vaginal orgasm, it can take up to 5 times of actual 15-20 minutes of stroking(where each time the girl allows herself to come closer and closer). All of this done in a 3 week span.

My kids mom. has been the only girl who orgasmed the first time I used my fingers inside her, but she was highly orgasmic and had vag orgasms her first time hopping on top of me. (I'm guessing since she was already able to orgasm through intercourse, she was able to cum the first time through g spot stimulation)

[theshyboy]

Could you give a bit of a tutorial as to how you do it because I have been trying to use this techniquw on my girl friend with no sucess.

I have read tutorials on how to do it, and seen demonstrational videos on how to do it, so I am sure that I am using my fingers correctly.

My problem is that my gf responds very little to vaginal stimulation. Obviously she moans wheb I enter her but very quickly she does not respond to it. She doesn't and has never had a vaginal orgasm. I have asked her how it feels when I try the deep spot technique or just moving in and out and she says it feels ok, but not great. In order to get her off I have to stimulate her cliterous, and she takes a long time to recover from a cliteral orgasm (basically one big orgasm a day and maybe a few small ones).

I am aware how sex is all about mental stimulation (interstingly she responded really well to me describing what I was going to do to her when I was finished licking her) which shows me how it is more about her mental state then what I am doin with my hands/tounge/penis.

I found it interesting how you took time massaging ur girls deep spot and building up to an orgasm. How does this work??

Its comforting that you can build her up to orgasm from vaginal stimulation becuse I was beginning to think that it was beyond me to achive it with this girl.

Any tips on how to achieve this?? I've done massage techniques but my main problem is that my gf seems to be very focused on achieving an orgasm from her clitorus so sort of doesn't think about getting it from anywhere else. Whenever I try doing other techniques it seems like she is waiting for me to move onto what she knows will make her cum. Do you have any ideas for how I could try and stimulate her vagina without her gettiing bored or worse focused on her cliterous??

[azazels_wolf]

theshyboy, have you seen Argo's thread regarding this?
http://www.venusianarts.com/forum/showthread.php?t=11016

[Digits]

i write this with my fingers still fresh from their workout...i use the deep spot massage but one technique not mentioned as far as i can tell is placing your hand on her stomach while you finger her G spot...place plenty of pressure with both hands so you can feel like your hands are almost touching. This area can take a babies head so you cant be too rough! i did that and she had a vag orgasm, they dont call me digits for nothing :) im only 17 and eager to learn but ive had some good teachers so far