More a kissing question than a sex question, but *shrugs*

[Dox]

Hey fellas,

A couple weeks ago I got a labret piercing done. It looks great, really suits me well, my main concern though is how exactly am I supposed to kiss with this thing in?? I usually wear a spike in it, so I'm not exactly interested in poking holes in my gal's face.

I'm thinking either put a ball tip on, or tilt my head more than I normally do (I used to kiss girls almost vertically before I got the labret done, allows for easier bottom-lip domination ;) ).

Any suggestions?

[Agape]

I'd say not to worry too much about it. If she's willing to kiss you by that point then chances are, she's not bothered by your jewelry. It's actually probably a turn on. I have decided that performance anxiety occurs because of Dlv. If you project value enough for the female to love you, then why, would you de-value yourself about the kissing performace. Does that make any sense? Cheers.

[Dox]

It's not rejection I'm afraid of, it's stabbing her in the chin with the pointy metal rod sticking out of my face (lol!)

I'm just wondering if I need to worry about changing the angle of my kiss or just be alot slower and careful with it

[relics]

so...there's a hole in your lip.

Forget kissing girls, can you still whistle??

Can you go swimming without having to spit out water every 10 seconds?

How do you eat soup?

(Seriously, I wanna know)

[Dox]

Ha, there's no hole in my lip when I have a metal spike sticking through it :P

*tries whistling* Yep works fine
*takes a dip in the pool* Hmmm, no problems there
*makes himself some soup*

*screams as scalding hot soup sears the front of his face*

Well, that's more due to my soup-eating disorder...

But seriously, am I the only one with a new labret piercing who has wondered "Okay, now how do I go about kissing a girl without stabbing her face off???"

I doubt it. Damnit, Mystery should at least reply, I know he's got a similar piercing!!! *waits on Mystery's response* lol

[Jess_R]

Sometimes I think that Mystery doesn't have a piercing at all, just a double sided magnet lip- stud. I saw it move once when he kissed some girl on his new video. Hmmmm... SCANDALOUS!

[Dox]

Nah, in the MM vids he plays with it and shows the other side of it - if it was a magnet, it would have moved.

[effdizzle]

I really wouldn't worry about it, if she wants to kiss you she's already expecting the spike to poke her.

Unless its the first kiss....

If it is the first kiss grab under her chin with your hand so that your thumb lays right under her bottom lip where the jewery would poke, that way you poke your thumb, not her :) Then durring further kissing drop the hand and cock her head slightly while backing off the pressure your appling to when kissing, then increase the pressure again slowly, use a little tongue at this time (not much though), then kiss normally. If you add all these movements i a fluid motion (may take pratice) she won't notice the poke because too much is going on at the same time.