Women and Happiness

[Fashion Rebel]

This is in relation to one of Badboy's Life Lessons.
"Happiness is inside YOU, not in other people… or stuff that you need to buy. That is exactly society wants you to think; to look outside yourself to others or things you need to buy for your happiness. But this can only bring temporary happiness. Most girls out there are unhappy with their lives and they search for a man to make them happy. Actually they search for a happy man, to jump into his life, and enjoy his life. That is why you must focus on yourself first, before you bring someone else in your life."

I somehow believe in this statement which is why I did focus on changing my inner game and philosophy first before I did started sarging. However, isn't PUA also about getting girls because we feel that there is something lacking in our lives. Just like what style has pointed out in "The Game" when he felt that half of his life is lacking.
I know that there is indeed a gray area in this matter but is it okay to say that we men are happy even though we don't have any relationships? Or Badboy's point is that we do sarge and study PUA not to impress others but we do these because we want to be happy or it makes us happy?
I need some thoughts about this so feel free to post whatever you guys have in mind.

[Bagles]

I'm taking a similar course. I studied outer game for a while before i realized my innner game wasn't 100% solid. so i'm studying inner game until i feel i'm at a comfortable spot with it. then i'll start outer game again.

woman come to men that have true happiness in their selves. not the other way around.

here's what i think. Happiness that you get from other people is second rate. and striving for that happiness makes you second rate. a first rate person finds happiness with himself. that's first and for most. once you can master that then you can work on the pick up end of the game. and you pick up woman not because you need them in order to be happy. but simply because you enjoy having woman in your life and you enjoy having sex with them or dating them. and lets face, any one who is good pick knows that picking up women is just strait fun to do.

once can be happy with out needing woman. trust me... women will come to you and, as a plus, make your happiness even greater.

[Devile]

Bagles you're spot on the money.

[The Wild One]

Women don't make you happy except in certain moments, and those are the ones we all strive for threw all the trials. It's not that women make men happy but it is true they can bring you joy in brief moments. They can give you the ultimate mental and physical high. The nice thing is we can to, but it will never change the fact the women will always have their imperfections, and life will always be filled with trials. What makes you a man is how you meet those trials with courage, vigilance, and a stead fast resolve to win. Follow your instincts and your heart with passion then women will come around allot.

Life is a battle and like the Spartan soldiers that fought without consideration for their own lives understanding that the human experience isn't about the length of your life but the manner in which you live it! Some choose to live long boring risk free lives, and those are the majority of men. Few have the courage to live truly free and apart from the rest. Long term happiness comes in the form of self sacrifice for those you love in the brave manner.

Follow your instincts, trust in yourself, follow your heart, and fight like the devil himself. Just make sure you can control your demons ;)