Tough Nut - Religious

[ElDuderino]

There is a girl on my uni course that I really like, she is so damn hot a 9.5 and the best personality. I am quite friendly with her and sit together and chat and play games in some lectures/ Trouble is she is quite shy and i hear she is quite religious, i think its one of the narrow minded ones. She never goes out to bars or clubs or anything like that. Anyone got any advice on getting somewhere with this girl?

Cheers

El.

[Hawaii]

Stop being "quite friendly" with her or she will LJBF you! Neg her, several times, DHV, run some attraction game, then go into A3 and start qualifying her. After class invite her along to do something with you that you are already doing as part of your normal daily routine. ie, "Im going down to Mel's Diner to grab a bite to eat, you should tag along"

[ElDuderino]

Sent her a few messages and setting up for making a move! Thanks for the kick in the ass I needed! Although I don't even know how it will work when I do get her out. But I'll hang in there!

Thanks for the advice!

El.

[Yoda]

One of the reasons I got into the game was because i consistently saw girls like the one you mentioned tossing religon out the window whenever it got in the way of passion.

It's really just an excuse, and even if they are sincere, it's never an obstacle.

Don't let it fool you...;)

[BonJovi]

Sent her a few messages and setting up for making a move! Thanks for the kick in the ass I needed! Although I don't even know how it will work when I do get her out. But I'll hang in there!

Thanks for the advice!

El.

Movie isn't a great date. You need to get to know who this girl is and sitting silently in a movie for 2 hours won't help. Take her to a cafe and make believe its your first time meeting her. Start with A2 and run it all the way through and actually figure out what's important to her and if she actually meets your standards (other than her looks). You don't want to put her on a pedastal before you actually know what she's about. She could be a nutcase with childhood rape issues. Who knows.

[Mild_Seven]

Movie isn't a great date. You need to get to know who this girl is and sitting silently in a movie for 2 hours won't help. Take her to a cafe and make believe its your first time meeting her. Start with A2 and run it all the way through and actually figure out what's important to her and if she actually meets your standards (other than her looks). You don't want to put her on a pedastal before you actually know what she's about. She could be a nutcase with childhood rape issues. Who knows.

LOL, he said MOVE not movie! :D

[ElDuderino]

LOL, he said MOVE not movie! :D

Yea I have set it up to ask her to go on the best non-date date ever, hopefully I can pull it off!

[BonJovi]

LOL, he said MOVE not movie! :D

OK. Ignore the movie part. My bad! :confused:

The other stuff is still good though ;-)

[Vincent Chase]

So wait... Why is this an issue? The chick is hot, has a great personality, is fun and basically everything you think you want in a girl.

What's the problem?

You're attempting to cage in your perception of who she is when chances are she is MUCH, much more. Some of the most sexual chicks I've ever met went to youth groups and hung out with their church buddies and went to ministry and all that crap.

Here's a tip for: Talk to her and FORGET IT, she isn't bringing it up, YOU are, you're projecting dude. It's NOT an issue, at least not yet and if you don't LET it become and issue, it won't be.

Tell you what, you run normal game on her, stop being her little friend, start being "owner," she's a puppy, you're the master, tame her. Now that sounds harsh, actually maybe it didn't until I said it did, point is NOW it does, but that's how you're approaching this. You essentially know JACK SHIT about her, sure maybe you've sat together and chatted... wow... awesome...

You know her as well as you know the radio DJ. All you hear is his voice and what he gives you, this crazy ass personality. It's going to take comfort for you to TRULY get to know her, inside and out if you want, then if it becomes an issue, you can adjust decide whether it's time to LJBF or appropriate your game and go for the Full. At this point, you're scared, that's all this is, you're running to us hoping we can help you with something you FEAR might be an issue, truth is we can't do that because if it ISN'T an issue, you're going to fuck yourself over based on the advice we give.

Just fuckin' jump in dude, it's going to be cold for a while, but you'll thank us later, then we can teach you how to swim, not before you get in the water, not with your toes. You gotta be FULL in that shit, neck deep or better.

Sooo;
Jump in, man.