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garc4387
07-26-2007, 02:00 AM
so like most on here i am new to the community...and like most i have been using opinion openers like crazy the last couple of weeks and yes they have worked to an extent...but lately i have decided to DHV by not only opening other sets but just having a good time...i mean once i get in the club I'm laughing with my friends and smiling and i have realized that this works a lot better...well tonight i went to the local bar and once i entered i was laughing and having a good time i know thats what i just said...but i realized that the girls that i opened weeks before where more receptive and in a way i used them to develop even hire value just buy dancing with them...well tonight there were girls that i have never seen at the bar (to let you know this is a small town i live in, in Utah and basically there aren't that many girls that drink and party...fucking Mormons) and i guess you can call this push/pull but there was this one girl that saw me dancing with all these girls and every time i would smile at her and she would smile back...so what i did was pretend to dance with her and just kept on walking...kind of made me smile because of the look she had on her face...fast forward...so it was the last dance (yes i know i shouldn't have waited this long...3 sec. rule which i totally blew)i went up to here and danced and this was after she blew off a couple of guys...after the dance she wanted to know my name and i pulled her off to a quiet corner of the bar and we talked and within 5 min. i got her number so now i have to come up with a day 2/date because I'm not going to wait for 3 days like the whole traditional shit says...but if anybody has any ideas please let me know...it will be much appreciated...plus keep in mind that i live in a small town

Hawaii
09-08-2008, 12:07 PM
A solid number close usually takes between 20-40 minutes. She may flake but just take her along with you on one of your daily activities or hobbies.

Jazzy_ways
09-10-2008, 10:27 AM
Unless you have uber skillz in that area, do not dance.
In the community, there is a guy who dances with popstars, he can use it for DHV, but 90% of us should avoid dance floor like the plague.