what does this mean?

[AdamUK]

Ive been chatting to a girl, its really complicated but i said this to her and she has confused me even more, what does this mean please:

ok there are therefore 2 reasons your not into me I said to the girl...(she did say i know we really really click but why i'm not into u right now i dont know)...

so I said the above and the 2 reasons for me are:

1) you dont find me fit, or 2) you dont know me well enough.

so i go ok so which is it, she goes:(2)

i go ok then u do fancy me...she pauses and goes ask me again later sometime, i go just tell me now yes or no its not a hard thing to answer i'm hardly gonna cry about it i cant change how i look...she kept saying ill tell u later cant answer now.

what the heck is she talking about she chose (2) and yet can answer (1) lol anyone shed some light please?

thanks

[redneck]

Quit being an AFC and tell her that if she's into you, it's on and if she's not, then move on. Nothing flips a girls attraction switch like seeing you with other chicks. So, if she's on the fence, it will help her decide. But, if she's really not that into you, nothing will.

[The Silencer]

There's a few things you never do, no matter how badly you want to. One of them is asking a girl if she is into you. Girls are never open and shut. You have to play with them, figure out for yourself where they are at, and then proceed from there. If she is into you, she will make it obvious in her own way. If she isn't, that will be pretty obvious too. You can't push her, you have to build attraction. If you have to ask her if she is into you, then you already know she isn't but you don't wanna believe it. When you ask that, what you really wanna know is why she isn't into you. But she will never tell you. She will either avoid the question completely or just make up something dumb, that she knows will satisfy you. Most girls are uncomfortable being honest and open, especially if they think it is going to hurt the guys feelings. Don't stress it though, each failure is the opportunity to learn and succeed the next time. We fear failure but embrace success, yet failure if the precursor to success. Accept failure for what it is--a learning experience.

[eXperience]

I completely agree with Silencer on this one.

[asab204]

it means she pretty much doesn't want to know you like that. I hate to say it but she's just not into you. I hate when girls don't tell guys what's up with them. It leads the guy on and hurts them in the end far worse then just saying " I am not interested in you like that". Please believe I have my fair share of heart ache over guys not telling me how it is, it hurts so bad in the end that you just want to go "well why didn't you just say that in the first place?". sorry dude. time to move on and find another girl that's worth your time and your energy. hope this helps you.