View Full Version : Women Complimenting my Eyes (how do i take it)
Big Papa
08-14-2009, 09:06 PM
Basically its in the title, I get Tons of compliments on my eyes e.g.
You have (gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, amazing, engaging, inviting) eyes.
or I love you eyes.
also worded differently, how should i take this?
Which are the stronger ones, why would she stop me in mid conversation to tell me, I know why I do it, why would she, (they) they stare into them its freakin erie, lol,
I guess i really just dont know how to take it
That's a huge IOI. Say, "I like your lips." If she smiles, lean in and kiss. That's probably way too forward, but I would complement her lips...works on any girl.
eindbaas
08-15-2009, 02:44 AM
"thank you" is all you need :)
dr_webber
08-15-2009, 03:31 AM
I get that alot.
its no big deal just say thank you, sometimes I tell em "I know" which causes some tension(the good kind) between me and the girl for some reason.
Alacrity
08-15-2009, 09:36 AM
Taking a compliment is one thing, but there is so much more you can do with this.
First off learn about eye gazing and triangular gazing. Then when this happens look at it as an invitation to escalate.
If it happens before 10 min (rough guide, use your intuition) in set, do an eye gazing routine. If its after 10 min eye gaze then tri gaze than kiss.
Escalate!
Big Papa
08-15-2009, 03:48 PM
On the norm, its typically betweent 15 and 20 minutes i would say, sometimes really fast too though, so i understand, i looked into the tri-gazing, im liking, it, kinda already did it, didnt switch eyes though, but eyes lips, and ive gone in a few times (with success in all) but never saw this as a tool to my own success, most often i break the focus, by closing my eyes and turning away, kinda smiling, then turning back and saying thank you, and moving on, it has developed into something of a complex, sub-consciously associated with that particular subject and influences my attitude and behavior.
L.A. Tripp
08-15-2009, 03:52 PM
Papa, when you're getting the gaze, she wants the kiss. Give it to her. Don't turn away. Don't cut the connection right there. Give her the kiss. Things would escalate from there. Look at it as an open door. If you walk through, it opens wider. If you don't, it closes. She's inviting you in . . . are you gonna take her invitation?
CPeters
08-16-2009, 05:44 AM
Basically its in the title, I get Tons of compliments on my eyes e.g.
You have (gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, amazing, engaging, inviting) eyes.
or I love you eyes.
also worded differently, how should i take this?
Which are the stronger ones, why would she stop me in mid conversation to tell me, I know why I do it, why would she, (they) they stare into them its freakin erie, lol,
I guess i really just dont know how to take it
Just saw this in a play 'don't forget to breathe'.
Take her head, pull it a few inches from yours, describe her eyes: blue like the bluest Ionian ocean.
Green like freshly cut grass.
Sparkling grey like silver catherine wheels.
Any krap which outdoes her, and sounds poet like.
Then keep holding her head, and say 'I love compliments about my eyes, but I want you to try harder'.
[not in play]
Of course, very ballsy move, she may take it as you going for a kiss and pulling away. But you can figure something maybe milder out.
Good play. The girls were moved (I wasn't). But still entertaining in that non-authentic rom-com way.
Big Papa
08-18-2009, 09:03 AM
As always thank you for the feedback, and I went for the kiss on a girl i would have called a buddy, lastnight, after she for i bet the 30th time complimented me, and she recieved me well, Lmao, although now i think she thinks im into her, i just wanted to test this thing out, so damage control, but thanks all
youngcasanova
08-18-2009, 03:46 PM
well personally i always say.."we barley know each other and your already giving me compliments?." but make sure she knows your joking. eye color is a huge plus....good luckkk.
The Silencer
08-18-2009, 05:51 PM
There is so much you can do with this. It really depends on the situation. If you are in an intimate setting or at least alone with her then you have to get a kiss. If you just met her or you are in a group, then take the compliment graciously. If you aren't sure of the situation then try being a little cocky/funny(are you hitting on me? with a big smile and a brush of her arm). If she responds with anything along the lines of, "Maybe," or "What if I am?" then lean in and kiss her. If you are in an intimate situation or fairly sure of her motives, after she says it, be silent for a second or two and stare directly into her eyes. Then stroke her hair and say something like, "I was just thinking how much I love your hair" and while u stroke it, graze her neck for some kino then pull her in for the kiss. Or stroke her hair and make a comment about her lips. Make sure you maintain eye contact the entire time. The more she wants the kiss the less what you say will matter, as long as it isn't super corny or retarded. It takes some practice but after time you will be able to gauge how badly she wants the kiss or if she wants it at all. Women usually don't compliment for the hell of it, so keep that in the back of your mind too. The biggest thing you should take away from this is not only what to do with the compliment, but the fact that they are complimenting you on something over and over tells you that is something you have going for you. You need to exploit that in all your interactions. It is safe to say that after 4 or 5 different woman have complimented the same thing, pretty much every woman you meet is going to like your eyes. They just might not all say it. So make sure to use all your assets in battle.
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