i cant get her interested!

[scorpio37]

hello all,i'm a new spanish pua apprentice,and i would like to ask you some much needed advice.using facebook,i've begun talking to a hb7 but since she is a bartender of a night club and she is pretty provocative i would rank her as a hb8,5...i've used some negs thru the messages and i've tried to look like i'm alpha by mentioning in a subtle way of my friendship with a dj...you get the point.but even though she replies and sometimes writes a hehe or haha,i haven't been able yet to get her to participate

[scorpio37]

(continuation for the above message,since my computer doesn't allow me a bigger message) more in the conversation and ask me stuff.i'm sure i'm not seen as someone with value yet.what can i do?it's strange cause with other girls my game works...by the way,we both live in the same city.
thanks

[npf87]

Sorry if this comes off a bit mean, but it's advice you need trust me :)

Why are you chasing this one girl? Who gives a shit if she's not interested.
Why are you talking to her through facebook? Go to her bar
If your sending her messages, it's coming off way too try-hard. I'm sure she likes guys who dont try hard yet still get her attraction.

So what can you do? Certainly don't try to convince her your alpha by talking about your friend DJ. Go to her bar and show her how fun and alpha you are in real life! That's what you do. Win over the bar, game some other girls at the bar to show your alphaness. Whatever. But don't just cowardly message her on facebook.

And also remember the Venusian Arts is not where you go to create some username to ask questions on how to get laid. It's about building a life, and totally changing yourself into a badass alpha who can fuck some HB7 bartender without even trying.

[scorpio37]

uh...i appreciate your advice,but i'm not exactly brand new in the method...i have a life and 2 dates this week with 2 hotties...but...i find this girl to be a match and i want to learn!so,you think its impossible to create attraction thru facebook?

[npf87]

I didn't say you didn't have a life, and you said yourself you were new! LOL
And sure attraction can be created thru facebook, but why do that when you can impress her in real life.
Think like you're her, would you be more impressed by some guy u know thru facebook, or some guy who just took over your bar, and is now talking to u.
It's simple man facebook is for people you can't exactly talk to in person everyday. If you can do it in person, fucking do it.

[scorpio37]

bummer...I have to study for exams comin in september and I won´t be able to go out to that club till like in a month...so the only way to talk to her is facebook now...should I just let it go and move on since you say it´s impossible to seduce her thru the net?

There´s a funny thing she does...I´ve tried to create attraction thru main attraction switches like preselection but she doesn´t really participate that much by asking questions or giving some signs of interest...it´s strange cause with every other girl,even on the net,they´ve asked me about things but this girl doesn´t...and her responses are really short,even though she isn´t mad or bored...

[npf87]

It's not impossible to attract her thru the net, but it's like this..do you think you could impress a boss for an interview better by sending him an email, or by going up to him in person and rocking his world.

And I understand exams are coming up, but every single night you're going to be studying? Really? You can't have one night to go out?

And as to whether or not you should give up or move on, i'd say don't give it so much thought. She should be a "whatever" girl, which means you'll see her when you see her. You never should have "tried" in the first place. Trying is where guys fail. If she's a hottie like you say then she likes guys who don't try and still turn her on. Don't think about it so much man, she's just one girl.

If anything, find one night to go up to the bar, talk her up a little, and if you like her, continue gaming, if not, then forget her. Make sure you always have the power.