Wolf
07-19-2007, 09:43 PM
Hey all, how's it going? Wolf here has a question for you guys...
I read the book The Game, great book btw and saw some of David Deangelo's videos. When first listening to these things, instantly my success improved drastically. But my question is this... I started using those things like ESP, 5 questions, friends psychic test and bla bla bla and they worked. But I was seriously pissed with myself. Why? Because this is not being authentic! Why can't we just be directly honest and say what we feel? I mean I guess it's kind of fake it till' u make it. I genuinely care about women. I enjoy every aspect about them but I don't feel it's me. And another thing, what's with the negs? I know their purpose, but is it really necessary when you already have a high value for yourself? I'll give you an example, if I want to talk to a girl I'd like to say: "I would like to talk to you. My name's Nick." flat out... You know what, I'm gunna try that tommorrow. I'll detail it for you guys too. Here's my approach on a woman:
A: You are the selector always and see if she's right for you.
B: Don't let her looks fluster you and find something else about her that would be of interest to you.
C: If she gives you a bitchy attitude always call her out on it.
D: Do not be afraid to walk away if she's not what you're looking for.
E: Always approach with respect. Always ask yourself, if someone were doing this to me would I like it?
That's it... What do you guys think? I can see how a woman would get pissed if you look at her for just her looks. Find something else in her that would interest you. Don't be the sucker and just fall for her just because she has nice cans. Maintain control and let yourself know that you will not just like her because she's an HB10. Make her work for your affection and always remember, this bitch is a guest in your reality, if she doesn't respect it, tell her to leave. I will tell you this, with this attitude my success rate skyrocketed. If you show respect for yourself, a woman will have respect for you. Know you're a good catch and always ooze that confidence and never second-guess yourself. If you want to do something, just do it but always approach and be blatantly honest. It is also a huuuge aphrodisiac. That's my attitude and it mostly works for me.
But the main question is, Do you find these lines like the ex-gf are fake and without interest? How do you guys feel about asking questions that are sincere and come with great concern? I'll give you an ex, I ask whatever comes to mind. In the past, I said things like, if you had one word to describe yourself, what would it be? Ask me a question that you think will embarass me, etc.
Please, post your opinions here. I'd greatly appreciate it and I am eager to hear from you guys. Remember, we are all here for each other. Thanks and keep making things happen!
-Wolf (I chose the name because it signifies loyalty, alpha-maleness, dominance, sincerity, care and aggressiveness when needed).
I read the book The Game, great book btw and saw some of David Deangelo's videos. When first listening to these things, instantly my success improved drastically. But my question is this... I started using those things like ESP, 5 questions, friends psychic test and bla bla bla and they worked. But I was seriously pissed with myself. Why? Because this is not being authentic! Why can't we just be directly honest and say what we feel? I mean I guess it's kind of fake it till' u make it. I genuinely care about women. I enjoy every aspect about them but I don't feel it's me. And another thing, what's with the negs? I know their purpose, but is it really necessary when you already have a high value for yourself? I'll give you an example, if I want to talk to a girl I'd like to say: "I would like to talk to you. My name's Nick." flat out... You know what, I'm gunna try that tommorrow. I'll detail it for you guys too. Here's my approach on a woman:
A: You are the selector always and see if she's right for you.
B: Don't let her looks fluster you and find something else about her that would be of interest to you.
C: If she gives you a bitchy attitude always call her out on it.
D: Do not be afraid to walk away if she's not what you're looking for.
E: Always approach with respect. Always ask yourself, if someone were doing this to me would I like it?
That's it... What do you guys think? I can see how a woman would get pissed if you look at her for just her looks. Find something else in her that would interest you. Don't be the sucker and just fall for her just because she has nice cans. Maintain control and let yourself know that you will not just like her because she's an HB10. Make her work for your affection and always remember, this bitch is a guest in your reality, if she doesn't respect it, tell her to leave. I will tell you this, with this attitude my success rate skyrocketed. If you show respect for yourself, a woman will have respect for you. Know you're a good catch and always ooze that confidence and never second-guess yourself. If you want to do something, just do it but always approach and be blatantly honest. It is also a huuuge aphrodisiac. That's my attitude and it mostly works for me.
But the main question is, Do you find these lines like the ex-gf are fake and without interest? How do you guys feel about asking questions that are sincere and come with great concern? I'll give you an ex, I ask whatever comes to mind. In the past, I said things like, if you had one word to describe yourself, what would it be? Ask me a question that you think will embarass me, etc.
Please, post your opinions here. I'd greatly appreciate it and I am eager to hear from you guys. Remember, we are all here for each other. Thanks and keep making things happen!
-Wolf (I chose the name because it signifies loyalty, alpha-maleness, dominance, sincerity, care and aggressiveness when needed).