14love
07-16-2009, 04:53 PM
Here is what I hope to accomplish from this:
1)Fully understand WHY I am trying to reach my goals
I've read a lot about people who want to be MPUA. Nothing wrong with that. But what happens in life when you work so hard to get somewhere, then you finally get there and it feels empty? That is a horrible feeling. To know you have worked so hard to reach a goal that now isn't what you thought it would be.
2) Find a wingman and other like minded people
This will be a challenging process to go through. Why not have fun with it and with people who have similar goals? If you want to be in the NFL, you show up to football practice and hang around other players, coaches, etc. Maybe a simple analogy, but PU is the same. You need to be around people who are actually in the darn game!
3) Eliminate the rust (or negatives) from my life.
I love my friends. But they are not in the game. We go to the bar and sit around and talk to each other. In fact, I'd say about 90% of the population just sits and talks to their table and no one else! I can't think of anything more boring in my life!
My friends make fun of me if I approach a set and it doesn't open and I get shot down. I just laugh and smile because I at least have the courage to DO something. They just sit there and talk about all the HB all around. They talk about "this really hot girl they hang out with who lives in some other town."
At the same time, rejection still sucks and I want supportive people in my life, not people who are trying to bring me down!
4) TAKE ACTION
there comes a time to learn, study and prepare. Then there comes a time to actually do something about it! This is where I struggle. approach anxiety sucks but I think being around other people who are involved with this will help. I'm ready to get the ball rolling and fast!
1)Fully understand WHY I am trying to reach my goals
I've read a lot about people who want to be MPUA. Nothing wrong with that. But what happens in life when you work so hard to get somewhere, then you finally get there and it feels empty? That is a horrible feeling. To know you have worked so hard to reach a goal that now isn't what you thought it would be.
2) Find a wingman and other like minded people
This will be a challenging process to go through. Why not have fun with it and with people who have similar goals? If you want to be in the NFL, you show up to football practice and hang around other players, coaches, etc. Maybe a simple analogy, but PU is the same. You need to be around people who are actually in the darn game!
3) Eliminate the rust (or negatives) from my life.
I love my friends. But they are not in the game. We go to the bar and sit around and talk to each other. In fact, I'd say about 90% of the population just sits and talks to their table and no one else! I can't think of anything more boring in my life!
My friends make fun of me if I approach a set and it doesn't open and I get shot down. I just laugh and smile because I at least have the courage to DO something. They just sit there and talk about all the HB all around. They talk about "this really hot girl they hang out with who lives in some other town."
At the same time, rejection still sucks and I want supportive people in my life, not people who are trying to bring me down!
4) TAKE ACTION
there comes a time to learn, study and prepare. Then there comes a time to actually do something about it! This is where I struggle. approach anxiety sucks but I think being around other people who are involved with this will help. I'm ready to get the ball rolling and fast!